she is 14
2006-08-08 21:49:43 · 20 answers · asked by Jose C 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you have to be a man to face it together. don't let her alone. understand bad moods she's facing. pray :)
2006-08-08 21:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by ettezzil 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How long has she been pregnant for?
Is abortion legal by this time in your country?
If so, the girl should decide whether she wants to endure the physical and emotional torture caused by an abortion (and 'free' herself of the child that will possibly prevent her from living her life as fully as possible), or if she wants to go ahead and have the baby.
I also think you should talk about it with her parents as well as yours. Or ask a doctor or some professional to do the talking. I mean, parents do have more experience, and adult thinking will be useful.
And personally I feel if you were irresponsible enought not to use protection, you should stand by her and support her. Don't let her believe it's her fault, because it isn't. And yet I have to say "well done" because you are concerned, you do worry, you haven't just run away. Which does show you're a good person.
Very best wishes, honestly.
2006-08-08 21:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by quark25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all is she keeping the baby. If so your your best to get a job around your school hrs. Give a set amount of your pay to her for the baby. Or you could buy diapers, clothes if you gon't want to give money. Stay with her and the baby as much as you can try to go to labor classes with her, so shes not alone. Let her parents know you made a BIG mistake by having sex, but your gonna be a man and do what you can. Good Luck!
2006-08-09 02:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by tifmears 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...I just went through all the questions that you asked and make up your mind...are you 16 and got your girlfriend pregnant or are you 13 looking for tips on sex. Either way your too young for that kinda talk and you are losing 5 points for your questions.
2006-08-09 05:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by northern_lady_2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take care of the child and don't be another dead beat parents no one wants that. Talk to her and both your sets of parents you all should all sit down and talk. Figure out what will be best for both families. And next time keep it in your pants I don't wanna be a b itch but take care of your action everything you do in life with have a consequence whether its good or bad is souly up to you and only you!
2006-08-08 21:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both made it happen. Now take the responsibility and make sure you set an example to yourselves. It’s not the end of the world. I know it’s very tough but you must both tell your parents about this. Their guidance will be needed for both of you.
2006-08-08 21:56:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go to a doctor for her,because to be a mother on 14 is very hard,but if you are feeling that you love her and she loves you,you should go for it!!!!I think you should watch the movie''Mother at 16'',is very real case
2006-08-08 21:57:42 · answer #7 · answered by fifere lolo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do your parents know and are you ready for the responsibility of parenthood. the best thing you and your girlfriend could do after the baby is born is to put it up for adoption. obviously you are not responsible enough to be parents
2006-08-08 21:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand by her my man. Keep both sets of parents involved. Believe it or not they DO know what's best for you and will guide you in your most turbulent times. Really
2006-08-08 21:53:10 · answer #9 · answered by wudbiser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a job and show her moral support. YOU ARE WITH THIS GIRL FOR LIFE NOW mayde not as a couple but you will always know her
2006-08-08 21:54:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might want to stay with her since she is under 16 it is illegal for her to have sex at all. be a man seriously
2006-08-08 21:55:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋