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I dunno why, but my boyfriend is too unpredictable for me, how will I know if he likes me? and what can i do to make him like me anyways

2006-08-08 21:46:33 · 6 answers · asked by cheri_blossom3 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

ugh, well i think he may be shy or as an aquarian (jus a research) he doesnt know how to express emotions-- emotionally detached, huhuhu :(

2006-08-08 21:55:26 · update #1

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Astrology is just not scientific, it is mysticism. To believe that your life is in the hands of the stars, is to relegate yourself to a most inept position.

Belief in astrology just befuddles the mind, with anti-reality mysticism. We make our own choices in life and act on those choices. To put your faith in the stars is to dispense with reality.

To judge or understand another individual based on their star sign, is unfair on that individual, because it is a prejudgment on that individuals character, based on a mystical proposition, that has no connection to reality. Individuals should be judged on their character and not their star sign.

There are reams of scientific papers, peer reviewed and accepted into scientific journals on astronomy, the same cannot be said for astrology, because it is none scientific. It is just a faith position, a belief without evidence.

The idea that ones life can be influenced by the faint magnetic forces, from distant stars and to actually believe that, is a serious disconnect from the facts of reality.

The fact is that we control our own destiny in life, through our own decisions. Yes, we can err and make mistakes, sometimes, very serious mistakes. And we can be involved in accidents that are no fault of our own. Despite these unfortunate incidents, for the most part we are in control of our own path through life. Some make a better job of it than others. But detatching oneself from reality and beclouding ones ability to make rational decisions, by holding on to childish nonsense, like astrology, is not the answer.

2006-08-08 22:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by atheist_secular_humanist 1 · 0 0

In your question you asked why you couldn't predict if you "LOVER" liked you. I assume by choosing the description "lover" instead of "friend" that the two of you are already sexually involved. If this be the case, then it's possible that one of two things is going on;
1) he really does love/like you and in his own way is showing it to the best of his ability, which means, if "the best of his ability" is not fulfilling your need as a female to feel that love/like now then chances are you will continue to feel unfulfilled in that area from now on.
2) he really does LOVE SEX WITH YOU and doesn't have to deal with or think about the "emotional junk" (Men are not emotional creatures) that comes with the kind of relationship that you appear to desire because he is already fulfilled in what he wants.
If I've missed the mark completely and you aren't having sex, then it doesn't sound as if this is your soul mate so don't sweat it. Look in the direction of that "true friend" kind of thing first, you know, the one that you can talk to about the very question at hand, long before the need to ask online comes in to play.

2006-08-09 07:21:35 · answer #2 · answered by Julie 2 · 0 0

uhh do you mean aquarius??? and you can't predict what your boyfriend wants to do. those horoscope things don't even work! so you jus gonna have to find out if you two are compatible or not by yourself! and if you don't kno if he still likes you, ask him!!!! its not that complicated. and if you want him to like you, then jus start flirting a lil bit. but you can't make anyone like you, it comes frm the heart

2006-08-09 05:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by Kimmie 4 · 0 0

Try going with him to ball games and see who he hangs out with. Sometimes a persons likes and friendships can tell you a lot. Take a look at the total 'him'.

Then judge.

2006-08-09 04:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by marnefirstinfantry 5 · 0 0

If he's your boyfriend, then I get the feeling he likes you. Since he's screwing you then at least he finds you attractive. I wanna meet this guy, he sounds cool.

2006-08-09 04:51:50 · answer #5 · answered by John Doe 2 · 0 0

zodiac sign its not an issue whether he shows his feelings to you. if he truly loves you it will definitely shows. asking him in a nice way wont hurt.

2006-08-09 05:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by ettezzil 5 · 0 0

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