It can work. You first want to ask: Do I want to redefine our boundaries for as long as he is away? You need to be fair to both of you, but you also don't want to sacrifice your happiness.
If you choose to stay close, here are some suggestions to help you:
1) Communicate your expectations for the relationship. In particular how long you are willing to be apart long distance. Make sure he respects your wishes.
2) Communicate regularly via email, sending your daily activities, photos, etc.
3) Talk on the phone as often as possible.
4) Get a new Apple Notebook with their excellent video phone software.
5) Send gift boxes with sentimental items and nice treats.
6) Send each other links to articles, poems, or movies, and other media that you both enjoy talking about.
2006-08-10 08:06:19
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answered by onemorealternative 5
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Pl do write , once a month , do not forget to wish him on his birthday and new year .
2006-08-08 21:37:15
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answered by your noon 5
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