I don't know what to do because my mom is really against gay or bi people. Little does she know...Iam a lesbian and Iam sure of it. She's always putting down gay people and always telling me wich guy I should try to get and it's hell!!! I try to give her hints that I like girls but it's like...She's blind...if you know what I mean. She says that being gay is a choice and it's dumb...But it's not! I can't help it. Every time she says something bad about homosexual people...I just want to run somewhere and cry....What do I do???
2006-08-08 21:21:55 · 8 answers · asked by Faye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she probably subconsiously knows that you are gay so she keeps saying those things to tell you that she doesn't want to hear about.
but sooner or later you will have to tell her the truth. if she likes it or not. and it might take some time but she will probably change her mind after a while.
there is groups of parents of gay kids and stuff like that. talk to those people to help you handling your mom.
keep your head up girl!
all the best
2006-08-08 21:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by 42 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's an old saying, the truth shall set you free. Perhaps if you're mother accepts you for who you are, she may just see the light and change her outlook. You have nothing to lose. What are you going to do, hide the fact that you're a lesbian from her for the rest of her life? Why ut yourself through all that B.S.? Just be yourself.
2006-08-08 21:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should come out do you need a little help my sister in law could help you she is pretty good at being with woman and if your mom really loves you then she would learn to except you for who you are
2006-08-08 22:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by social 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
overall it sounds to me like your likely transgendered or with the help of gendered. I actually have a chum of mine that jogs my memory of your self. regularly situations at start truly of having the common x or x chromosome or an x and a y. you've had a mixture of both. i do not recognize the way it precisely is going yet your body could sense like that's 1/2 woman and 1/2 boy. And it receives really nasty because in case your body is at a loss for words or your at a loss for words in what sexual identity you're frequently situations it may go at the same time with orientation. i imagine that's large that you want various and distinctive as each man or woman is unique to his or her own. besides the undeniable fact that in case your feeling like your from time to time a boy or from time to time a lady and prefer both genders. that's really confusing yet your in for a large type of discomfort because in certain circumstances I listen that your hormones will run like loopy no longer understanding what it needs. yet contained in the period in-between all you're able to do is be your self and in case your Dad loves you sufficient and accepts you for who you're. i imagine that's alright to inform your father the actuality. i'm confident it is going to likely be confusing on him before everything yet you've been nonetheless being you from day one. that's merely he did not recognize your selections.
2016-11-23 17:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by garbutt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry,your mother allready knows about you.She is trying to tell you that she won't exsept it.It is a very big issue and a painfull one for any mother.I know you did not make that choise but as a mother i alsow can understand your mother's point of viue.
2006-08-08 21:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try to see a therapist you are not a lesbian
2006-08-08 21:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by Ali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I came out of the closet to my mom and she already knew..it's mother's intuition. Their good trust me.
2006-08-08 22:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by OnE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to explain her or at last do run away
2006-08-08 21:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋