I know that the reason is because I am fat. I have tried to lose weight and change but it is hard and takes time. I know they shouldn't have that type of mindset so should I change or keep looking. PS I have been looking for many years and haven't found someone yet.
2006-08-08 21:10:11 · 10 answers · asked by Duke89wv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you cant get a girlfriend because you are fat?
well in my opinion, whether you are fat or not doesnt matter.
i am a girl, but i will see his content of his character.
if your girl judge your looks, thats not true your girlfriend
your true girl friend knows well about you, so she wouldnt judge you only because you are fat.
i love a guy who cares about me, kind minded person and fun to talk with. i dont care how much he is fat.
i think u would better brush up your personality than go on a diet.
dont you think so?
2006-08-08 21:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately in today's society, weight is a significant factor in choosing a mate. Some ( Male and Female ) seem to rate another's appearance way too highly. What should matter most is what a person is like on the inside, not totally the outside. However just visit the online dating sites. Some almost blatently say " if you're not perfect... do not apply!".
Do yourself a favor. Visit your Doctor for a complete physical and discuss weight loss programs. I personally like the "South Beach Diet". Also discuss an exercise plan while with your physician. Try starting a sensible eating program and exercise as tolerated.
As you begin to lose some weight and build up some confidence, consider trying online dating. Be honest, however,when providing info on your profile(s). There will be someone out there who will be willing to get to know you if you are a good hearted,caring and loving individual. The things that should truly rate highest on anyone's "love list".
Best of luck to you
2006-08-08 21:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by kathy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-24 23:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
then exercise you fat as*
you are not going to get a girl by crying about being fat and being too lazy to lose weight
2006-08-08 21:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should lose some weight so more people will actually take a second look at you....
2006-08-08 21:29:53 · answer #5 · answered by Faye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your not happy with yourself.
Find the mindset to become healthy.
You'll feel better and love yourself.
If you love yourself, so will somebody else.
2006-08-08 21:20:34 · answer #6 · answered by Silver L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-15 04:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will find a girl who loves you for you... im not the thinnest person on earth either but i found a boy who likes me for me and not my looks... girls can be shallow(im not say ing i cant be bad at times but neways) you will find a girl in time and look at it this way... theres more of you to love! good luck!
2006-08-09 15:26:18 · answer #8 · answered by Candystripedlegs93 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe cause u got some low self esteem
go join a GYM
2006-08-08 21:20:22 · answer #9 · answered by UgottaBkiddinMe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** you you fat ****
2006-08-08 21:15:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋