i just gave birth three months ago and i was so depressed with my life, i was also stressed with work bcuz i work at graveyard hours. so i have been drinking and smoking nonstop for a week. and one crazy night, i did it with this dude (unprotected) on a fertile day, which i totally forgot. he told me that he pulled out but i felt a sudden gush inside me during the intercourse. given the chance that he came inside of me... is that enough to get my pregnant? what are the probability? i am so paranoid so i researched on the net about ways of interfering with pregnancy. i came across Emergency Contraception... however, i took it 108 hours. barely before the time window of 120 hours prescription to take EC's. today is the 9th of aug. i had my last period around july 14-17. i did it last monday morning, july 31. and i took the EC on the next friday afternoon which is aug.4.... i had a take home preg test done monday morning this week, aug.7 and it sez negative...... IM SO FREAKING PARANOID.
2006-08-08 21:02:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
FYI.... I was taking good care of my baby prior to the crazy week when i was doing stupid stuff.. and i dont do random sex... the dude is my friend. i was just telling him my problems when that happend between us. hes been helping me more than what the father of my kid is. its just that, i dont want to and i CANT have another kid yet and especially not with my friend.
2006-08-08 21:03:49 · update #1
First of all, staying up late and drinking and smoking are *not* forms of birth control. They will not have any effect on fertility for most women.
Withdrawal, on the other hand, is more effective than most people know (96%; see sources section below). I wouldn't suggest it as a method of birth control, but if he used it (and didn't ejaculate inside of you), then the chances are pretty low that you're pregnant. The reason it isn't suggested as a birth control method is that (unlike other methods), you can't know if you're using it correctly until after you're done.
2006-08-08 21:19:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Drinking, smoking and staying up late is not contraception. Don't ever trust a guy to "pull out". That doesn't work and they often don't do it! Please note in the link above Withdrawal method shows 76% for typical use. That is not very good odds.
Your period started July 14th and you had sex July 31st? That is possibly the worst day you could have chosen. All you can do now is wait and see. Be more careful in the future and take care of that baby.
2006-08-09 04:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by Redheadinbed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok Calm Down. I Know its hard but try. We all make mistakes and lets hope this isnt going to follow you forever. Just let this be a lesson not to do again. But I would think the EC would still work. But im not sure. So for now all you can do is calm down and in a few days take a test and hope for your period and a negative result. GOOD LUCK hoping for a neg for you!!
2006-08-09 04:13:24 · answer #3 · answered by April S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well girlie you went and did it (never mind you not using a condom to protect yourself from std's) you know you can get pregnant from pre ejaculation just as quick as the full ejaculation and rite after you have a baby is the best time to get pregnant anyway...And why would you want a man that soon after all the pain Did you forget how much it hurts giving birth...Good luck I mean it I have 3 and Its not easy but its definitely worth it!!!Gota love em.
2006-08-09 04:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by lmcbirch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very likely you're pregnant. Wait a week before doing another test and then you'll know.
2006-08-09 04:29:07 · answer #5 · answered by blood_hooks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋