we were friends. confusions entered in over time. i was married. he was single and we both felt attracted to each other. he got married. but he felt very bad that he got attracted to me. and we both tried to mellow our feelings. i missed him a lot after he married and we had fight as he deleted me from his regular email id. but he sent me card thru alternate id. and i said you are a player..he felt enraged adn we stopped talking for one year and then things were pretty bad..we had terrible fight. he was very angry. but after few months he came and said sorry and wanted me to get over bitterness..seemed pretty genuine. but he never flirted or showed me that he was interested in me. he said he is busy and one fine day he deleted me.
what happened? any guesses?
2006-08-08 21:00:14 · 3 answers · asked by dsnmstis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well we had terrible fight and he said he had moved on over time. i kept thinking he was player and that was what bothered him. he says he controlled his feelings(of lust?) but he said he 'cared' as long as he was freind. he wanted us to get over bitterness and he said friendship need not be broken but at the same time he would not add me in his regular id. i would say u meet others but why dont u trust me? and he said he never talks to anyone and u should understand my situation. i always supported u. etc. but he was the one who wanted to be freinds.
do u think he was genuine? do u think that he was scared that i might create problems and that was teh reason he wanted to remove bitterness before deleting me..taht means he was fooling around..no?
i m lost:(
2006-08-08 21:51:43 · update #1
He felt guilty having any kind of a relationship with you.
2006-08-08 21:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by sakura4eternity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is confused. You shouldn't deal it. If you are married, stay with you husband and let him be with his wife. But if you love him more, don't let him go and let him know your feeling.
2006-08-09 04:15:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably cares for you too much.
A real man keeps himself in check.
His wife needs to be his best.
2006-08-09 04:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by Silver L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋