me and my boyfrend were messin around when he started to finger me, he touched his dick but didnt have anything on his finger like *** or precum... im am scared im pregnant because i missed 2 months of my period, maybe because i only started this year in june. but can i stillbe pregnant??? pleasse help.. i cant tell my mum. she will kill me..
2006-08-08 20:42:10 · 20 answers · asked by qazwsx 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I am a late developer.. 14 when i started my period
2006-08-08 20:54:55 · update #1
I tried answering the private msg you sent me, but it said you hadn't confirmed your email address so I couldn't send anything to you.
It's possible to get pregnant if there was any semen or pre-ejaculate that came to be on or near the vaginal opening. If there was none, then you are safe. It takes your body some time to get regular periods going, so this is normal.
2006-08-08 23:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by Nurse Annie 7 · 8⤊ 5⤋
You would have to be extremely unlucky to be pregnant under those circumstances. You don't say how old you are, but periods can be a bit erratic when you are young and that is the most likely cause of you missing 2 months. If you are under 16, then any form of sexual activity, including petting or 'fingering' is still illegal. If you are really worried, maybe you could go to see your GP. He/she will treat your case with the utmost discretion and will be best placed to give you the help and advice that you need. If you are not pregnant, this may just be the warning that you need to realise that it is better to wait until you are old enough for sexual activity before you start to experiment. I realise that you could well be under a lot of pressure from your boyfriend as young boys seem to be even more confused about sexual matters than girls. I know, I was a boy once, and well remember the affects of the 'raging hormones'. Unfortunately, boys have much less to lose than girls, but they don't realise the significance of that at the time. Whatever happens, in the future, be patient, then be careful and be safe, then you'll be happy.
2006-08-08 20:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by geminipetelondon 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart if you only started your periods in June this year, this tells me you are very young, something in the region of 12 or 13, be very careful that you remain a virgin you are way too young for sexual Intercourse, and this type of messing around will almost with out a doubt lead to you having sex with your boyfriend, then if you are not careful, like using a condom, you could get pregnant, but I very much doubt that you are pregnant now, with your very young body just beginning to develop into a young women, what happens when you start having periods is that you don't always have periods every month to start with, most young girls will have their first period and then go a couple of months or so before having their second, when you have your second one, you could go another couple of months again before your next, until eventually your body adjusts itself and you begin to develop a pattern of around a 28 day cycle. Relax and don't worry too much, but even after saying this, if you are still worried then I suggest you get yourself a pregnancy kit and make sure, even if it will just give you peace of mind. Good Luck sweet heart. Tracey
2006-08-08 21:00:49 · answer #3 · answered by hotbabes_tracey 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Can you get a pregnancy test, so you can chill? Stay calm. And next time, if you don't want to get pregnant, don't fool around with no clothes on. This isn't to scare you, but I'm living proof that fooling around can and does get some girls pregnant. Chances are good that since your period has just started you could be irregular. Has it been two FULL months? And one other thing..no your mom will not kill you. I expect she would be there for you. There will be lots of times in your life that you might want to kill each other...but of course, you won't. Just remember you are HER baby, and we moms are very protective of our babies. Killing isn't one of the things we do. If the unthinkable happens and your mom doesn't handle the news well, find a woman you can trust, like a counselor or minister. Find out first, and if you don't like the news, this is a good place to return. But of course, we'll start out thinking it's a little glitch with your period. Blessings to you.
2006-08-08 20:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your period is probably late because your body hasn't established a regular routine yet. And the fact that your stressing doesn't help.
However you should get a pregnancy test done to ease your stress-As despite you saying there was no pre*** if there was it can still contain sperm and sperm can live outside of the body for a few hours.
If you go to a family planning clinic you can get one for free-they wll not tell your mum and will offer you advice should it be positve.
Lastly-Please be careful, think carefully about sex, only say yes if you are ready and use protection (ask the clinic-they are really helpful and give it to you for free)
Hope this helps
2006-08-08 20:55:31 · answer #5 · answered by miko2606 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The only way you could get pregnant is if he put fresh sperm on his finger before he put it in you.
If you're so worried, go buy and over the counter pregnancy test. Remember to throw it out away from your house trash if you don't want your mom to know.
PS. Research SAFER sex tools.
2006-08-09 03:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by Lotus Phoenix 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-02 20:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by Robin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very doubtful, but if you are worried then visit your local clinic (they usually have an evening a week open) you can get a test done and advice on contraception and sexual health.
Good luck.
2006-08-08 20:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by honie 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
its really unlikely that youre up the duff, there is practically no chance.
your period is just irregular, it takes a few years before you get a regular cycle so you shouldnt worry
2006-08-08 21:05:39 · answer #9 · answered by sillyfatelephant 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it would be advisable to have a test...and think very carefully before you 'mess around' next time hun
2006-08-08 21:16:07 · answer #10 · answered by amelia_madeline 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If your for real,
Go and buy a pregnancy test from the Pharmacy
2006-08-08 20:49:11 · answer #11 · answered by Rob S 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋