once they get their own satisfaction--they just sleep feeling happy after that..and the girls just feeling like sh!t. any other ladies feel that way sometime? like you're just their sex toy....
2006-08-08 20:33:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It really depends on the guy. Typically, the older they are, or if they've ever been in a very serious relationship, the less selfish they are, but it really depends on the individual.
2006-08-08 20:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys yes.. if someone is in love and wants to be with the girl to the complete satisfaction of both.. the girl gets the pleasure before anything else, but most guys learn to control things as life goes on.
Not only that, the more new things you try the more fun it becomes and the easier it is to make the woman climax.
It takes time to learn tricks, control, stamina and above all else what the girl likes... that's most important I would say... not all girls are the same, and the guy needs to figure out what she likes and what turns her off during, as that can affect how quickly, if at all, the girl will ***...
2006-08-09 03:38:38 · answer #2 · answered by ghostsqaud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy. The truth is both people are somewhat responsible for their own pleasure.
There's a good book out there called the "Big O" by Lou Paget. That can help women figure out how to focus on their own pleasure at the same time.
The truth is if you can't talk to the guy before hand (or during) and tell him what will please you then you don't have a high level of real intimacy you shouldn't be sleeping with him.
2006-08-09 03:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by Kitia_98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boo,
In defense of 50 year old guys. I truly love to pleasure my partner and make sure that she gets her cookies before me. It is true I am not a 20 year old so I know that certain needs should be met.
When I was a 20 year old I was a self serving idiot that took care of my own needs and rolled over and thought I ruled the world.
As you grow older you come to understand what needs should be met. And maybe you pick up and read a Cosmo every now and then to get some tips!!!!!
Come on guys! Put down the Playboys...some of the best tips I've ever read are in Cosmo!!!!!
I've said my peace.
2006-08-09 04:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by sunnyboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not true,though,it depends on individual sexual fantasy.My philosopy is that my girl must come and be satisfied first before me.It's a win-win affair,which both party is expected to emerge victorious.I never made love to a woman without satisfying her,period.If not,what is the essence of love making?I only does sex as the last resort.I concentrate on kissing,romancing and any other stuff that interest my partner.Love Making is sweet by nature and should be preserved by MEN,Period.
2006-08-09 03:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by samfred 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys including me during sex care also for there partners pleasure.
But after the man ejaculates its desire to have transforms into a kind of bordom and sometimes disgust.
So don't worry you are not just a sex toy.
2006-08-09 03:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by cyberhacker665 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that is not true...for some guys.
Personally, I enjoy it MORE when my partner is satisfied several times. It gives me a feeling of achievement and in turn arouses me more. So my enjoyment is directly proportional to my partner's enjoyment. If she just lay's there, there's just something missing.
2006-08-09 03:40:05 · answer #7 · answered by damion_2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only works like that when the guy is in his fifties and the girl think's she's screwing a 20 yr old. It doesn't work like that.
2006-08-09 03:50:52 · answer #8 · answered by DaNewGuy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i,ve never felt that way because i have always taken charge and got mines you should try it ive had 2 people tell me they feel like there my toy though but it was true
2006-08-09 03:41:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say most guys are that way...most do understand that if they are like that..sex isn't going to happen very often. unless the woman is left happy, they'll soon not be very happy themselves.......some guys are like that though...slow learners?
2006-08-09 03:39:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋