2006-08-08 20:27:10 · 12 answers · asked by luvable-lisa 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
The best thing you can do is get some books to read on this subject. The more you know about what is happening to your body and why, the less pain you will feel. When you are afraid, it causes your body to tense up, which in turn causes more pain. It is called the fear/pain cycle. I am going to give you the names of some books that helped me. One is called, "Ina May's Guide to Childbirth" by Ina May Gaskin. You can find this book at the public library. It is very informative, and it also has some very positive birth stories. Another book you might want to read is "The Birth Book" by Dr. Sears.
2006-08-10 05:10:06 · answer #1 · answered by izofblue37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK well what hurts the most is the labor pains, witch is really bad cramping in your lower abdomen and lower back, but you can get a epidural for this and then all you really feel is the pressure of the baby coming out of your vagina, don't worry about it hour after it is all over it you will f forget everything it is such a overwhelming feeling of happiness, love, and joy that you will forget about everything that was pain-full and be a "Mother" it is a true blessing to conceive a child. And yes, but very rare for a women to die from delivering a baby, and this would be caused by complications, and again very very rare.. Hope this helps ... But if you are not pregnant and just asking, you should wait it is a big responsibility but if you have a very strong support system such as your family, you will be fine and Congrats..
2006-08-09 03:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by tranel d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my first child just last year and what hurts the most was labor. Trust me, labor is like having a really bad 100x painful than a normal period pain. It's just a cramp that cramps your abdominal muscle area. But don't you worry, they have something they can give you at the hospital to ease the pain. You don't need to be afraid. Trust me. I know when you get on that hospital bed, all you can think about is when the pain is going to strike again. But once that baby is out, you will forget the pain. You just going to end up staring at your baby. You'd be asking yourself "wow! is that my baby?" It's a horrible but yet a good way of an experience. 4 or more months pass by after having your baby, you'll forget the labor pain. I think the worse pain in the world is going to the dentist. Until now, I can still remember the pain when my back tooth was taken out and this was like 6 years ago. Horrible isn't it?
2006-08-09 03:52:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the labor hurts the most, maybe that's why it's called labor coz in the labor room, it can really get hard and tough as hard labor, like no other it hurts all over your stomach and around your hips and upper body. it's indescribable pain. if there were no gaps in beween labor and the pain is continuous, it can be unbearable.
the nurses would come around to try to sooth you by touching, petting your tummy but it doesn't help. i didn't want to be touched by anyone. the worse thing is that you have to be given an enema so that you'd go back and forth to the loo with you in pain like that.
as the baby nears birth, the labor gets harder and closer in gaps-like seconds in between, the pain escalates too, i thought i would pass out and that would have been nice so that i would feel nothing,
but i was conscious the whole time, just bearing the pain until the doctor says its time and you're brought to the delivery room.
the doctor engage you to push, and you push, one time, two times, three..., i forgot counting because the first time you do not really know how.
and then you push with all your might not caring at all, you just want the pain to go away by pushing even though the pushing hurts too.
the magnificent part is when the baby comes out of the birth canal, there's this cool, swooshing feeling in your insides, surprisingly it's nice, and the baby is born. at that moment you pray that he's well and healthy, and there's this warm feeling when he's being placed over your tummy for the initial bonding time, it was an emotional moment, i cried. it was great. - unbelievable really that you had really took participation in the miracle of life, the creation of this wonderful being, and that it's really a miracle he's coming from you. such a wonder.
you'd be stiched-off right after the birth and it could sting a little, but you will just be relieved to be out of it, you wouldn't mind the minor discomfort.
hours after giving birth your breast swell because of the lactose that its releasing and this hurts too, all over your front and back, i got fever. from it the only way to relieve the pain is to have your baby suck on your milk - that's nature's way of telling you your maternal instinct of having to feed the baby that way. amazingly you will know if the baby is hungry because your breasts tell you it's feeding time when they swell- there's really sychronization there.
well i was scared too when i was your age, it was second to my scare list (after death & dying) that as a teenager, i didn't want to get married. but i have three kids now. they all hurt (a lot) during birth, but they all are worth it.
2006-08-09 04:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by maiax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found that the part where you are pushing, and he's jsut about out, and you only need to push one more, and just waiting to push again is the most painful-but as soon as you push him out and your stomach sinks-thats like the coolest feeling ever cuz its all over and ur stomachs all jiggly and you get see your new beautiful baby that u've been waiting for for 9 months.
in this day and age with all the advances in medicine, not many women die during labour-only if there are severe complications can the possiblity arise.
the best advice i can give-don't be afraid. I wasn't afraid for a second and it was the most rewarding experience ever and 'd do it again a hundred times if it was possible
2006-08-09 03:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell are you doing worrying about this at 14? Wait 10 years. Your body will be ready to handle the pain.
2006-08-09 03:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by Stella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The labour hurts the most - the delivery is the easy part!
2006-08-09 03:30:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say having a baby is painful
2006-08-09 03:33:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi lisa I'm a mother and could help you with any ques. you have. E-mail me at tifmears@yahoo.com. I'll be happy to help you
2006-08-09 10:11:29 · answer #9 · answered by tifmears 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the baby comes out of your vagina
2006-08-09 03:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by Ale[x]andra Aristocrat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋