my gf is against threesomes...she's les...while i am bi....i have been faithful for the 6 months we've been together, but i want to see if a man could still excite me in that way...should i try it, just to make sure???
2006-08-08 20:25:48 · 20 answers · asked by Yahooligan85 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
okay...also...when i met her, she told me she was bi and into the whole 3some thing...then over the last few months she changed her mind...However, she knows she is my first girl and i was technically str8 before that....still the same answers guys?
2006-08-08 22:08:30 · update #1
okay first of all dont u think that maybe she was into all tha 3 sum **** at first but yall where new lovers... now she has been with u yall have both been faithfull.. dont u think that she loves u ... i mean at first me and my gurlfriend thought that it woud be kool to have 3sums with other lez.. but now me and my gurlfriend are so in love with each other... we wouldnt even think about it ... i would never let someone else touch my gurl ever .. just think before u act.. and i am not trying to tell u wht to do .. i dot like that eaither..
2006-08-09 18:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answerto that question. Thats clear by the fact you identified youself as bi sexual.. so therefore you know theres no reason to cheat on your g/f... here are your options if you wish to continue to have sex with men...
be honest with her and break up with her BEFORE the real damage is done and then either find a male partner who is open to you having a female playmate or a female partner who is open to you having a male play mate... from the beginning you need to state your needs.. not get 6 months deep into a relationship and wanna go gallyvanting around trying some of this out and then some of that out just to see if it still excites you... either it does or it doesnt... and you dont need to actually have it up in your face to know
2006-08-09 03:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by Levi Cristopher . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has come to my attention that you are selfish. How could you invest 6 months with this woman and then in your mind think about being with someone else? I believe we live by truth and consequences. This is not a question for any of us to truly answer you have to find in yourself, though I must agree with Levi on this. Tell the truth and face the music you just want to go back and forth and then I sense you shall never truly have a devoted relationsip with anyone. We can give you all the input you ask for but it is you who will live with the choices you make.
2006-08-09 03:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by Melanie D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion cheating is not a good thing. From what i know cheating will get things more worse. Althought is is your friend, neither or your girlfriend. You as a man should tell her the truth and dont ever pretend nothing happen. This is because this will more a less will change her behavior that you dont like it very much. I am a man my lecturer use to tell me that cheat is one of the worse thing that most human use it for their own sake or to get something their want, but as for me cheating is bad for me. My advice to u is to tell her the truth and dont cheat stay out of trouble and be a very generous man in your life, i am for sure you will get some advantages when you dont cheat and also satisfactory on your own self.
2006-08-09 04:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by Brian K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why cause all that unneccessary drama for yourself? If you knew you were into threesomes, you should had been up front with your girlfriend to begin with. You now know that she's not into that but you're taking a chance into hurting her,set your priorities straight. If you feel you can't be faithful to her then leave her alone and get with somebody who is into the same thing as you are,no use hurting anyone.
2006-08-09 03:34:31 · answer #5 · answered by T.Mack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,its alot easier 2 tell her u dont wanna b wit her anymore then 2 cheat on her.Would u want her 2 do it 2 u?Think'a bout it....
2006-08-09 03:51:07 · answer #6 · answered by sophatup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat. But you owe it to yourself to make sure you are happy with who you are. Discover yourself. Even if that means you need to take a break for a while.
2006-08-09 14:46:51 · answer #7 · answered by prettyt926 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all tell her what you have in your mind and you want to know if it still excites you and then DO IT.....just an idea you offer her to watch you while doing it
to know there is still lucky guys in world is good..lol
2006-08-09 05:11:03 · answer #8 · answered by dsp1555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is wrong. All you have to do to not cheat is tell her you are going to not be with her as a partner. And break up. Then you're not cheating.
2006-08-09 03:32:59 · answer #9 · answered by Einsteinetta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it...
...if you are even thinking about it then you should have a go as your questioning your commitment in the first place
...who are we to judge
2006-08-09 03:58:43 · answer #10 · answered by Ichi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋