my ex and i broke up 2 yrs ago but after a month we broke up,we became close again because were together here in our office. we're so close to each other and were acting like we had again a relationship. we're always together almost everyday. All our co-workers think that we're together again.when the two of us are alone, there are times that he said he still love me. there are also times that he's so very sweet and thoughtful but the problem is we had no formal commitment. He still dosen't asked if im willing to come back to him..my question is.."does he really love me?" "will he comeback to me or not?" im really confused.. pls. help!!
2006-08-08 19:15:05 · 14 answers · asked by girl_10 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Move on girl
2006-08-08 19:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by Spin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to this guy. Offer to take him out to lunch and when the two of you are alone, tell him how you feel about him. Let him know you miss being in a relationship with him, and you were wondering if he felt the same. Nothing will ease your mind, like the truth, whether it be good news or bad. Just because he still loves you, doesn't mean he wants to be committed to you, the only way you will know for sure is if you come right out and ask.Good luck!
2006-08-09 02:24:18 · answer #2 · answered by MegMaher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Him how you feel and let him know that if he's not intrested in having a serious relationship he needs to step off so u can find your soul mate cause if he doesn't want a comitment then he's not it. And your not gonna wait for him to make up his mind so it's now or never.....don't just say it mean it!!!
Good Luck
2006-08-09 02:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by cathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think he loves you? Do you love him? Is there anyone else invoved (do u have a partner)? Is he a game player.
If there is no one else invovled go for it - have some fun and see where it takes you, but stay a little reserved just in case.
2006-08-09 02:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by muffy20052001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor..In matters of love and romance, don't throw away someone who loves you and may be willing to develop and become a lifetime trusting and loving companion.
Loose the head games....not worth it.
2006-08-09 02:20:04 · answer #5 · answered by marnefirstinfantry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he still loves you and maybe he's just waiting for the right time to talk to you and tell you how he feels.. But if you really wana know, why not talk to him?
2006-08-09 03:46:57 · answer #6 · answered by yummy _me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like your his "comfort zone" your still in his life, yet not in his life....do you understand what I mean? If you were married and you work together...just come out and ask him..you should be able to talk.....at least if he says no he doesn't want to get back...you'll know where you stand...you can change how things are accordingly...you won't be left hanging
2006-08-09 02:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go ahead and ask...get him when he's being romantic...someplace cozy and talk about where you both want things to go from here....he maybe wondering the exact same thing.
2006-08-09 02:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by lanceh13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him be man enough 2 ask u once again......
why should u be going around waggin ur tail.....
then might seem u are not sticking on to ur decision once taken....
ya but if u 2 like him dat badly den why not go ahead...
2006-08-09 02:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by demon_wolf006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait it out, or if you are done waiting ask him and tell him how you feel then you know.
if he says yeah were on again then you know. if he says no then you will know not to waste your time
2006-08-09 02:18:48 · answer #10 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋