After that also we brought him from india and he was with as for 2 years.That time also he was fighting to us.Once my child faced a critical condition(then she was only 1 year and my husband was not in the home).and this man was just watching it and didn't even look.They are very egotic people.their father had died my hus is the eldest. this is the eight year of our marriage. He has been working in the gulf for the last 15 years. But no savings and till now helping his home. When he was living in our house he called me very bad words in front of my hus and even told that he was living in our house for killing me.
my hus didn't respond to this. he lived 3 more months with us.
Then my hus realises his fault and he went.After some time again he came my poor hus believed him.This april we went india for his marriage.one day without any provocation he slaped me,he hold my breasts, called my father and my husband very bad words in front of his mth'r & wife.Still my hus is not responding.
2006-08-08 19:10:43 · 4 answers · asked by math 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
After that also we brought him from india and he was with as for 2 years.That time also he was fighting with us.Once my child faced a critical condition(then she was only 1 year and my husband was not in the home).and this man was just watching it and didn't even look at her.After that also we were bearing all his expenses.Still i served food for him .my hus is the eldest. . Hus has been working in the gulf for the last 15 years. When he was living in our house he called me very bad words in front of my hus and even told that he was living in our house for killing me.
my hus didn't respond to this. he lived 3 more months with us.
Then my hus realised his fault and he went.After some time again he came my poor hus believed him.This april we went india for his marriage.one day without any provocation he slaped me,he hold my breasts, called my father and my husband very bad words in front of his mth'r & wife&hus.Again repeated he will kill me.that day went away from their house.decision
2006-08-08 22:01:19 · update #1
please advice
2006-08-09 02:05:45 · update #2
Better start counseling your own husband , and you must start savings for your future , take instant decision , not to see your In-laws and so called br in-law in future . At least you just foot down not to see them around your house in future , no communication , no niceties , no wishing etc etc . Time has come you have to take very bold step , may be you have to stand on your feet , do not allow this nonsense in future at least in your place or around your house.
2006-08-08 19:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by your noon 5 · 5⤊ 3⤋
Your husband should have stood up to him. His mother and wife will not do anything because of the way they were raised. I would try to avoid being around him. It sounds like your brother-in-law considers women to be possessions to do with like they like. I am sorry I do not know much about the treatment of women in India. Your child is a girl and it sounds like he did not care if she was sick. You need to think about how he will treat her as she gets older and not let her be around him alone.
2006-08-09 02:18:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is awful. your husband should stand up for you. i know that the customs in India are different from America, but he still needs to show you respect. as for the brother, he has problems and he has no respect for women. you should talk to your husband and tell him how you feel and that its not right. tell him that you are tired of that treatment and that you deserve respect.
2006-08-09 02:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by bumblebee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you didn't marry a man...you married...well I'm not sure what you married....you have two choices...either live with it or don't...the choice is yours to make....make that 3 choices...you could have the brother-inlaw killed..that's another option....
2006-08-09 02:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋