my best friend has a crush on me i've tryed everything in the book to get him to not like me i told him i just wanted to be friends and he almost started to cry i've tryed every exuse in the book i don't want to hurt him but, i've even tryed going out with him and then dumping going out dump,and so on and so fourth. Were both 11, what do i do !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-08 19:09:05 · 12 answers · asked by hermans_biggest_fan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You are 11, this is good practice on how you will carry out future relationships. So, whatever you do, do what makes YOU happy. That is my advice. If he is a good friend, he will respect your decision to remain "just friends" If he doesn't respect your choice, then he doesn't respect you....simple.
2006-08-08 19:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by val schmal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 11. This isn't the end of the world for either of you, love... I know everything seems super serious at the moment, but believe me, it gets much worse. 11 is much too young to be dating and dumping anyone!
2006-08-09 02:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by blerggghhh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is just a childhood crush , best thing to do is to tell him you just want to be friends and if he cant accept that tell him you wont be able to be friends with him because you just dont want that kind of relationship with him if he cant accept that he probably isn't the best person to have around and you dont need him in your life
2006-08-09 02:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by ashley j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then love him then.It is hard to get a boyfriend or a girlfriend these days.But check him before u love him because may be he will dump you half way.
2006-08-09 02:14:25 · answer #4 · answered by Frendlygal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!u know that was like an irony,sure is cuz i was reading going to think u were going to be some 18yr old or more but u shd not go out with him cuz ur not ready,wait for some few yrs when ur ready to start dating
2006-08-09 02:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by ♥D@t_bLaSiaN♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him straight foward that you just want to be friends for now and since he is your best friend he will accept that fact in time. But you have to be very clear to him that you dont want to date him.
2006-08-09 02:15:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start avoiding his presence with some lame excuse , otherwise it will be too late to stop him , better act now .
2006-08-09 02:13:39 · answer #7 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid him for a little while and take a deep breath
2006-08-09 02:13:25 · answer #8 · answered by start w/ laughs ends witha fight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r a gal then make him feel that u like somebody else ......
if a guy then yhe other way round...
2006-08-09 02:17:04 · answer #9 · answered by demon_wolf006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
11?? i have no words.
2006-08-09 02:21:01 · answer #10 · answered by Lynette♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋