I'm a premed student, a member of MENSA, top of my class, pretty enough, a shy, sweet girl with lots of friends and people who care about me. Yet when I think about who I am, I feel like crying because I hate that girl so much. I've tried for years to change this about myself, because I owe it to the people who care about me. Nothing has helped, and I fear that I'll never like the person I am.
2006-08-08 19:01:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Come to Modesto ca and see all the jacked up tweaker people and you will look at your life and feel way more acomplished! Hey my bro is on MENSA. oops off subject, but maybe you need to talk to someone, there has to be a reason you feel that way about yourself. think about it. if you did something wrong in the past, just look at what your doing for your future. thats ALL THAT MATTERS!!!
2006-08-08 19:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by STEVE0 THE CLOWN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just based on what you've told me you sound like a very intelligent person. You have a gang load of friends and a great life. However you seem to be lacking from the inside. Your confidence level is on the negative side. Physically i'm not sure how you look but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Just try to look at yourself in the mirror on a daily basis and feel good about your. If everyone feels good about you and you don't feel good about yourself then you fail yourself.
2006-08-08 19:16:09 · answer #2 · answered by demlimbas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hate yourself...why? Did you murder a bus full of children? Kick innocent puppies? All that you're lacking is confidence.
Since angst over my shyness was a big part of what made me hate myself, and you say that you're shy too, let me just say: good on you! As a shy person, generally the people who become your friends deserve to be, and remain friends for life. You don't waste precious oxygen blathering to strangers. Embrace being shy. Just lose the self-conscious aspect.
2006-08-08 20:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by Lynnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in the same place, so i feel for ya. i havent accomplished as amazing things but i'm also shy, pretty enough, sweet, and have really great friends and family who are the only reason i really force myself to stay together. with me, i know i try to find one thing, one little thing that i myself can control. like this summer i chose an eating plan and i stuck to it hard core trying to lose weight. It feels really great to know you are making a positve change that can make you feel better. or i also currently have 2 tiny pet frogs. i like to take care of them and it feels good to be able to control what happens to them.
but as for me i know i dont have many hobbies and that always brings me down. i wish i was truely passionate about something enough to persue it but nothing ever seems right for me. but creating hobbies and other little quirks might help you feel more connected to yourself and feel more like a full person.
just some ideas, hope things getter better. :)
2006-08-08 19:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I find it interesting how you start describing yourself by your academic achievements and end witrh "lots of freinds and people who care about me". Maybe you should focus more on yourself and the people who care about you, and you'll learn more about yourself as a person and in turn love yourself more. I have a feeling you are a perfectionist; it's easy to be perfect in academia because you can study harder...however to love yourself wholly is probably the hardest thing for one to do. I suggest to spend more "me-time" and treat yourself to more things you love. Don't be so hard on yourself!
Much luck
2006-08-08 19:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to change yourself. You are who you are. Deal with it...
You have this "Only thing that sucks of being me is me". Have you find your place in the world? I mean, are you using you intellectual capabilities into what you really love to do, or to something pointless? Have you ever talk to people who love you about this?
You don't really owe to anybody that much that you can't be yourself. Be selfish! Do what you love to do...
2006-08-08 19:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by ganjanaut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to Change your self
Just try to change how Do you look toward things
We are our Self and that is Fact That will not Change
Either we live with it Or
we will Go on through our life carrying one more problem
Just think
2006-08-08 21:50:59 · answer #7 · answered by thunder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness I can diagnose this one, scary ain't it. Lets see teen early 20's right? I think you are a normal for your age, who has normal hormones. Listen to family and friends and you will be OK. Another crisis solved. :-)
2006-08-08 19:17:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ur feeling guility about someting guility uve done. If ur not just love urself. U r who u r and theres no one else like u.
2006-08-12 17:53:27 · answer #9 · answered by Libra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consider your self as a normal person of society then you realize that you never hate yourself that's it
2006-08-12 15:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by RAMBO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋