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There is this girl who has been a good friend...she works with me...one of my friends told me that if you love a girl, make her feel special...I started making sure while I am around she shouldn't have to worry...I was always there to support her...I would wait for her at lunch...but lately I felt she was not comfortable....I aksed her and she wrote me an e-mail that "give me some space...one can not be in mood to talk, joke or party all the time...there is some problem which i wan to solve at my end and dont want to discuss..."

I wrote back..."That I inderstant that sometimes I crossed my limits. And that I will not interfere in her work, crack jokes or sms her any more...be happy"

To which she replied "Thanks for understanding.."

Now friends I dont know what to do...now I have distanced my self from her, but i am very unhappy...what to do..?

2006-08-08 18:47:18 · 7 answers · asked by Arnie 2 in Arts & Humanities Philosophy

7 answers

What is there not to understand? She told you to buzz off.
Get this through your head: You can't force love or even
friendship.
Get over it and find someone else who appreciates your qualities.

2006-08-09 17:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by Freddy F 4 · 1 0

Sometime if help to distance yourself from a friend, let them try get their problem together.But still be worry, but not to worry. Soon the friend will want to talk you bout what going on.

That what I did when I depressed, my friend talk with me about what going on. Sometime it good to talk to them about why I be like, yet sometime I feel as I need a little space, but still want them to be by my side.

2006-08-08 18:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by Tori 5 · 0 1

distance makes the heart grow fonder.

more space the more she will want u.

the longer i am away from my boyfriend the more i want him and love him (he works off shore 3 weeks out of the month and i go to school 4 hours away)

2006-08-08 18:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by 3 · 0 0

Look I don't want to hurt your feeling but it might not be meant for you to be in her life. If you are really interested in her then just give her her space. But it honestly sounds to me like she just wants to be your friend and if you really care about her you'll have to understand.

2006-08-09 03:38:12 · answer #4 · answered by Bunnie 2 · 1 0

she wanted that to be left alone and that you did but you said your not happy. if you truly love her you should be happy for her no matter what. that's how love works sometimes


maybe one day she will realized her life will not be complete without you but in the meantime keep yourself busy and still be there for her whenever she need you.

i hope that helps....

2006-08-09 01:02:35 · answer #5 · answered by r89c79 2 · 0 0

i think you did what she wanted, shes happy with it, and you arent, you can continue to be friendly at a distance but dont be underfoot all the time. after a while maybe she will realize she missed your attentions.

2006-08-08 21:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Apologize to her and get on with your friendship.

2006-08-08 18:51:27 · answer #7 · answered by eugene65ca 6 · 0 1

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