I just wish there was a way to stop feeling like this. I am confused 95% of the time to the point where I can't focus on the smallest thing. Nothing seems to really excite or entertain me anymore. I am always irritated as hell. I'm getting to the point where I hate being around anyone, and when people call, majority of the time I ignore the phone. It's feels like there is not one thing they could have to talk about that would be of any interest or importance to me. It's like I'm thinking a million different things at once and the majority of them are what people would consider 'thoughts that people are really not supposed to have'. I'm not talking about sexual, perverted thoughts, but just wrong ones. I really feel as if I need some help, but when I've tried to explain myself to people, even professionals, i usually end up deviating from the subject or finding myself at a lost of words on how to explain the situation. The things I have taken haven't ever helped. What should I do?
2006-08-08 18:04:55 · 17 answers · asked by Six 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
get a CAT scan
2006-08-08 18:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by pycels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? I don't know. It sounds like a horrible situation you are in. Something tells me you are not religious, but even if you are not a Christian, you can still pray about your problems. God's infinite wisdom can get you out of any situation. It sounds like you need some affection, but that you don;t want to let yourself admit it. Why not start off by getting a dog? A small, playful dog, that, if nothing else, will give your life a purpose. You can talk to your dog without fear of judgement, give him hugs, and he will give you endless love. Once you have adhjusted to this, maybe you can start getting back to the world, talking again to people that care for you. Perhaps you are in need of some kind of drug - prescribed - like an anti depressent or something similar. Well I hope one of my suggesitons has helped, and I hope you're able to get out of your rut.
2006-08-09 01:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by Jigga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to seek professional help and force yourself to stay on subject. If you have to, print out what you just posted here and hand it to your cousleor. This could be used as a tool to help explain some of what you're feeling. I personally, think you sound depressed. It is common and easily treatable. You just have to commit yourself to being honest with a couselor and telling them what is going on. If you don't you will continue in this downward spiral and those wrong thoughts may become more than just thoughts.
2006-08-09 01:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by Lanie Janie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Print out what you wrote here. Take that with you & give it to your doctor. That will help. It's normal to be at a loss for words or to even minimize or avoid the problems when you are talking with your doctor. Even keeping a journal of your thoughts and feelings for a couple days while you're waiting for your appointment to take with you will be beneficial. Life is too short to feel like crap, please make an appointment tomorrow. Promise?
2006-08-09 01:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by just_two_01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a book. I would be glad to read it. :)
Really, this sounds like a huge problem, but you still can't find the words for it so no one can understand what's happening to you. When you find the words, maybe you'll know better how to deal with it and you probably won't need anyone's help.
2006-08-09 01:20:50 · answer #5 · answered by :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was at that point in my life at one time and to be honest with you a lot of those qualaties i still obtain. if someone calls 95% of the time i ignore it b/c i just feel like there agravating and i really dont care what they have to say. i dont know how old you are but im going to guess 17. it might have a lot to do with your just trying to find yourself as a person. and you need cool friends like me.
2006-08-09 01:13:52 · answer #6 · answered by BB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Sir,
What I do is work-out, lift weights and more weights to relieve my tension and stresses so I can focus more and not get as irritated by people around me. Don't get a girlfriend yet as you haven't healed yourself yet, once you do, a girlfriend would help further enhance your life and experiences with one another.
Kind Regards,
Ben
2006-08-09 01:11:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just_two_01 is right....you need to print this out and bring it to your Dr. to read. I was having the same exact problem, and had a very hard time communicating it to my doctor. Months of this misery went by, then one dr finally made me keep a "journal" -- to share some of what was going on WHEN it was going on and WHEN i was able to put words to it. I did, and got help. Try this please! you don't have to feel this way.
2006-08-09 01:18:47 · answer #8 · answered by Stormy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking so much and just be . Get the CD's "The Power Of Now " , by Eckhart Tolle .
Play the CD's over and over & over until it makes perfect sense to you. It will .When you learn to stop thinking so much and just enjoy the now , you will feel much better .
2006-08-09 01:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by missmayzie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are an multitude of answers for this question first off have you ever talked to an psychologist or even your local doctor. help is available for you and this problem, but first you must seek out help if you really want answers to this question. and if you can't afford the others, then your local health department will help you out for free..................................................
2006-08-09 01:19:47 · answer #10 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Son, you need to get out, I know you don't wont to but do it anyway, you control your being dont let it controal you, your setting yourself up for some pretty heavy depression, maybe get a vit. b12 shot b12 is great. do somthing for some one, just a random act of kindness, please dont give up on yourself.
2006-08-09 02:31:09 · answer #11 · answered by shashonah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋