he wont talk to me?

Question

my friend asked me out and i said no and now he's not talking to me.will he ever talk to me again an will stuff be like it used to be??

and its been about 3weeks

Answer 1

He is just feeling rejected right now ...His feelings were hurt , give him time and he will get past it...or if it bothers you that much tell him you have changed your mind......Why not go out with him..you might enjoy yourself

Answer 2

You have, from his point of view, rejected him. How should
he react?

I'm not saying that it is reasonable, but it is a pretty genderless
question. People don't like to get rejected. People deal with
it in different ways.

For some people, getting up the courage to ask someone out
is an immense leap of faith - and then to be shot down is
a terrible blow.

You may not have intended it that way, and perhaps he will
learn not to invest so much in an invitation next time he asks
somebody ... however, there it is.

If you want to be friends with him, then you need to corner
him and say that you want to be friends and that you are sorry
you hurt him and that you'd hate to lose him as a friend because
of this.

That is, just like he took some initiative, now YOU get to take
some initiative.

If you can't corner him, then you can't ... and you'll just have to
wait until he's recovered a little.

Answer 3

If your friend was asking you out on a date, did you simply say no and not give any reason? If so, try your best to get your friend to sit down and talk to you. Let the friend know that you really care a lot for him/her and want to always remain friends. Also say that you don't ever want anything to interfere with your friendship and put tension in your relationship. Then say that lovers come and go but true friends are forever. Let your friend know that you realize he/she may need time to think about what you have said so you won't bother them and will wait in hopes of hearing from him/her saying they understand and still want to be friends. In my opinion that about all you can do. The rest is totally up to your friend. Good luck, I wish you the best.

Answer 4

If he really wanted to be your friend he wouldn't have just stopped talking to you. Besides in what way did he ask you out as in a date or a friends day out? You know either way he shouldn't be acting like that, but maybe he is still finding a way to cope with the rejection. Let him know that you still want to talk to him as a friend.

Answer 5

Yeah, it might be the same....but it will take time. Hes not talking to you b/c he is embarresed or upset that you said no. Just give him some space, until that feeling dies. Then you might become friends again.

Answer 6

hey let him know that it wouldn't have worked if you guys had been a couple,because only one of you had feelings for the other.this doesn't mean that you guys still can't be good friends.talk it out with him and he may jst be feeling rejected or dissapointed.
be very normal with hima nd cheerful and may be you can introduce him to some of your other friends

Answer 7

yes eventually he will get over the embarrassment of going there with u and will talk to u. Give him some time. He'll come around

Answer 8

His feelings just got hurt give it some more time let him come to you if he doesn't there was nothing there in the first place don't worry about it just keep being you.

Answer 9

he will eventually after the hurt is gone, and he can see the friendship he lost along the way, as for being like before, no, that will not happen, since the innocence is lost

Answer 10

If he is to immature to accept NO from you and reacts like a spoiled Brat, you tell me will he react like that again?