I have been with my husband six years. He is the second man I have been with sexually. For some reason sex is painful sometimes and I have never had an orgasm. I enjoy sex because I love being with my husband. Is something WRONG with me?
2006-08-08 17:11:26 · 8 answers · asked by innocence7847 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I never had an orgasm until I was about 30 and when it finally happened, it HAPPENED. I knew something was different because first the bottoms of my feet started to feel hot...weird, huh. Then it just happened. After that, it came more and more frequently. I think some women just "catch their sexual peak" later then others.
2006-08-08 17:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by b_friskey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you able to give yourself orgasms? You need to start there. If you can have orgasms by yourself. Then you need to explore your interaction with your husband.
Take your time, relax, and try new things. Sex should be fun.
Painful sex can be psychological (you're not relaxed so you tense up and peneration becomes painful) or physical (he's too big, you need more lubrication, he thrusting too deep, positions are causing pain). These are all things you can experiment with to find out what is cause the pain. I suggest starting off by adding some KY jelly before penetration.
Unless you're bleeding or sex is unbareably painful, chances are that nothing is WRONG with you. Believe me, I've had my ups & downs. You just need to experiement until you find the right combo.
2006-08-09 00:25:58 · answer #2 · answered by Kimia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually no, nothing is wrong with you, I read somewhere that more than 40% of woman have never had an orgasm. You should look into getting a vibrator, and if you can orgasm on your own, then you can show your husband what to do.
2006-08-09 00:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by CoutureCutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually a lot of women don't get orgasms from nomal sex.
You should try masturbating. There's nothing wrong with it! It's totally normal!
You know your body best, so with some luck and experience you will find out how to give yourself an orgasm.
And once you can give yourself an orgasm then you can figure out how your husband can give you one! :)
2006-08-09 02:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok quick get to the sex shop..get get a few different vibrators,porn,lube...maybe it hurts because your not wet enough so use a little bit of lube...watch some porn & masterbate & use the vibrators, find out what YOU like then lead him,but you have to train a man to please you. you have no experience but to late for that so get some ideas from porn.masterbate in front of him so he knows what you like, guranteed you will get an orgasm if you do these things...good luck & happy orgasms...lol
2006-08-09 00:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by sexy momma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean you've never had an orgasm like when you masturbate? Because vaginal and clitoral orgasms are different.
2006-08-09 00:17:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy a vibrator....it takes a while to get the hang of it....you Will know when you get there....vibrators are not an inner thing if yo know what i mean
2006-08-09 00:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by perryb64505 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know...ask a doc or someone.
2006-08-09 00:19:58 · answer #8 · answered by baseball_38703 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋