I have been dating my bf since January 1st it was like love at first site . I love him dearly and we are ready to start a family we both have jobs and i want to know is this the right time we are finacially ready what do i do?
2006-08-08 16:56:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
only you and your bf can answer that but make sure you think carefully and don't rush its a big decision and it will affect both of you for the rest of your lives
2006-08-08 17:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by slushlush 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im curious as to why u ask why love hurts so much. Your dilemma is that you both want to start a family - if your both ready then sure, go for it. nobody can answer this for you.
There are a lot of questions that you should ask yourselves though, your age, your finances of course, if you plan to work after you have the baby, is your relationship stable, r u ready to sit home on weekends and give up parties etc..
if your ready then go for it and all the best!
2006-08-09 00:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by muffy20052001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both want a kid and are in love.. why don't you consider getting married first? my husband and i were married almost a year before we conceived and i'm due any day now. you might feel financially ready now.. but babies are a huge responsibility. you would need to make sure you have thought of everything.. cost of formula (if not breastfeeding), diapers, wipes, etc. things add up. also, would you want to be a stay at home mom after the baby came? and would you be able to swing that financially? you might not thing you want to do that now, but feelings change after you hold a baby in your arms... just think and through, and make sure you and bf spend lots of time talking about it... it's a huge decision, and not one to be made quickly.
2006-08-09 01:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by daisylady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not the boss of you, but I think you should get a little more commitment time before you have a kid together. This is a very quick relationship. Have you guys ever talked about marriage? The foundation to building a strong family is the marriage that first started it.
2006-08-09 00:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by grimstress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you thinking of getting married first? If you love each other and are ready and able to start a family you should get married. You should make a commitment to each other before you make a commitment to your children. I say go with your hear. Its a big decision and you should think long and hard about it.
2006-08-09 00:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask what to do, then I would be led to believe you are not ready. You would not be questioning this at all, you would just know. How can this love hurt so much? Your question doesn't lead us to believe there is a reason to feel hurt.
2006-08-09 00:20:13 · answer #6 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both love each other and want to start a family togater and live life togater then go for it but make share that u both want the same thing you know about the family thing good luck with every thing i hope every thing gose good
2006-08-09 00:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because things hapen and it hearts real bad but thats wutt love is it sucks
2006-08-09 00:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by cutypie413 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is something you need to discuss with your significant other.
2006-08-09 00:28:30 · answer #9 · answered by Wendy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wouldn't hurt if you had no feelings- THAT'S WHY
2006-08-09 00:03:39 · answer #10 · answered by JayneDoe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋