well ive known him since i was little and he loves me! but his brother died last year and he needs someone there for him! and his ex gf died from drunk driver and i feel bad not to but! i really love my bf and i dont want to break up with my bf! and i need help<3
2006-08-08 16:49:51 · 6 answers · asked by sweet COUNTRY kissin<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he just emailed me and hes crying and i told him i just want to be friends and that broke his heart! and he just asked me out and i dont want to say no bc he has already been through alot
2006-08-08 17:00:03 · update #1
but i dont want to break up with my bf! so please help me!
2006-08-08 17:01:30 · update #2
Tell him I am sorry about everything thats going on But, you have a boyfriend that you love and you cant be with him while you have someone. He could be mad but its not your fault your taken and in love.
2006-08-08 16:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by tweetyladyc1029 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Make sure your bf is okay with this....Tell your freinds brother that though you are already with someone you would like to be his freind...That way you can talk to him about things and it would be clear from the start that you are only there as a freind...But make sure your bf is ok with this so it won't cause problems
2006-08-08 23:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi but i feel that you cannot like him just because you pity on him on his sad events ... you have to know your feeling and see if really like him or love him...
you.. yourself will know the answer in your heart,,, who knows, maybe you already have the answer in your heart..
maybe you can talk to him that you can be his best listening friends,,,, you can chat with him when he is upset..
but you have to make clear with him that you love your boyfriend very much and you and him can become best friends
so do you still love you boyfriend??
regards
nicole
2006-08-08 23:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you think is right...console him but tell him that you have a b/f and don't want to break up with him...but remain his friend!!!
2006-08-09 00:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by princess_anne_2009 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS PROCESSING GRIEF. HELP HIM TO HELP HIMSELF. YOU DON'T HAVE TO BREAK UP WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND TO BE A FRIEND TO SOMEONE IN NEED.
2006-08-08 23:55:09 · answer #5 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you are taken and tell him you are really sorry
2006-08-08 23:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by cydney h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋