but it seems like i cant believe it. i am 16 she is 17. i want to believe it but i cant i dont understand. Can someone help me
2006-08-08 16:35:58 · 17 answers · asked by Webbie JR 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well.. i hope you can trust her.. since that is the basis for a good stable relationship... is there some reason you don't believe she is a virgin? like is she a flirt or something? if you think she might not be telling the truth, simply b/c, how crazy that a 17 year old is still a virgin... don't have sex though.. you're too young... wait until your married... and ready to accept the consequences if you find out that you're gonna be a daddy.
i am proud to say i was a virgin until my husband.. i was 20.
2006-08-08 18:34:34 · answer #1 · answered by daisylady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well....you answered your own question...you are a virgin you just said and she is too! What cant' you believe? Are you lying about being a virgin? If you are telling the truth about being a virgin then why isn't she telling the truth about being one?
Just enjoy your relationship with your gf and don't try to have sex too soon... You don't want to become a Daddy at your age do you??!??
2006-08-08 16:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by krYpToNitEsMoM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get what you're talking about....
Uh... Are you surprised that she's a virgin because she's older? Do you believe her?... Or is it that she's telling the truth and you wanna ******** her *** **** ***** with *** and she's just not into that?
Do you wanna get laid or something? Is that all you want?!
Trust me, if you're both virgins, nothing's going down for a while. You're both too shy and inexperienced to ever have sex, ever, so you should just give up and m.asturbate until your hand falls off....
Good luck!
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2006-08-08 16:43:09 · answer #3 · answered by i_am_the_bmf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont Think About Sex..Finish School And Married N Have Sex..If Ur G/f Virgin Or Not Dont worry..Just Dont have sex with her...cuz all you get from sex n at young age kids...
2006-08-08 17:27:38 · answer #4 · answered by ❀Mother Of 2❀ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe her and please take it slow!! having sex might change the relationship!!! their is nothing wrong with remaining virgins!!! that is a beautiful thing! i was a 17 year old virgin on the pill and i got pregnant the very first time and sex wasn't that great either!! wait on it!! let it happen naturally!! get a hobby or something you both enjoy together!! i now have a 18 yr old son behind all this early sex thing!! please wait!! nothing is 100%
2006-08-08 17:19:13 · answer #5 · answered by arlene p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help u with what? What is ur real question here?
if u don't believe her, then why are u dating her.
If this is a question to justify other intentions, then be specific. My answer would be to follow not the paths of emotions, but the ones of reason and truth.
2006-08-08 16:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by baraaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong about both of you being "virgin"!!! Believe her and respect her and do not force her to do anything against her will. Both of you should read more about "sex" and responsibilities that are attached to intimacy!! Be good, be smart, be mature!!
2006-08-08 16:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by Antoine a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I don't see what your problem is. If you trust your girlfriend, then believe her. If you believe the other things she says, then if I were you, I'd believe that too. Why not?
2006-08-08 16:40:57 · answer #8 · answered by yahoohoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, believe her or not, what's the big deal? If she is, then she is, if she isn't, then she isn't. So what? Maybe you just shouldn't be so judgmental and paranoid.
Oh wait, I want a "best answer"... I mean, "do what you feel."
2006-08-08 16:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by newinfiniteabyss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's the problem- it's possible- wait till marriage on ur honey moon...it'll be so special...and a better experience :)
&& get ur mind outa the gutter geez(hehe like i'm any better:P)
2006-08-08 16:39:46 · answer #10 · answered by 1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋