the anwser why i got an abortion 5 months ago?

Question

I got it becauase my baby was 7months old when i got pregnant and i could not handle the pressure the but i alsohave 2 other kids two

Answer 1

First of all dont listen to what these other people say. They are not you, only you can make the decision on whether you are ready or not to make the commitment then sometimes it is best for you and the baby. Second of all personally I am against abortion and I dont feel that was the right way to handle the situation you had found your self to be in. I am not going to sit here and tell you that what you did was wrong thats not my job or anyone elses, but I am going to tell you that there are many ways to prevent this from happening which I am sure you know this. Next time just think of these options first before you have to make another hard decision like this again. And remember that no matter what any one says you are not a bad person for doing what you felt was right.

Answer 2

Call me insane but I honestly do not believe you had an abortion and think you are just seeking attention.

People who get abortions do not go around bragging about them, they keep it to themselves...Most do not even tell their families about it...

Weather you are telling the truth or not I think that killing a child because you can not handle the pressure makes you pathetic. Why did you spread your legs unprotected? I was raped when I was 15 and not only was I raped but it was by someone of the opposite race and I found out I was pregnant and going to be having a Bi racial baby. The kind of place I lived in it was nothing but whites and I never saw anyone other then whites in our neighborhood and I was so afraid because I refused to get an abortion because unlike some I understood this child was a part of me not just this evil monster that did this to me and just because this man did what he did that did not mean my child was going to be like that but I was afraid what people would say and if my child would get made fun of because of being a different race so me and my parents sat down and talked and decided to move but sadly a few weeks before moving I ended up moving and I was I believe 3 months along..It was really hard for me to lose the baby and on top of that the bastard who raped me got away with what he did because stupidly I waited about a month to go to the hospital and report it to the police and so their was no evidence and the police said they could only prove that he was the dad when my child was born and they would conduct a DNA test but then they would have to try and prove that he did actually rape me and that I did not have sex willingly.

Answer 3

I guess I don't understand how having the pressures of a 7month old w 2 other kids varies that much from having a 12month old w 2 other kids and why now all of a sudden its a more convienant time than it was 5 months ago but whatever either way it sounds like you would need to go to the drs for an evaluation/exam???

Answer 4

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As to my answer...
You don't sound like you need any more children. You are only 22, already have 3, and have aborted 1 then started trying for another only about a month after the abortion.

Why is any of this our business? Well, it's not unless (as I suspect) you are having more children than you can handle and we have to pay taxes for welfare to support you just because you want to keep having kids when you are having a hard time with the pressure from the ones you have.

It sounds like you already have your hands full. Stop trying and enjoy the ones you have at least for a few years.

Answer 5

First, get some counseling. Preferrably from somebody like a Christian counselor or pastor, who won't attempt to cajole you that what you probably did substitute into ok. that is not; inspite of the undeniable fact that, God will forgive you, and you are able to go on along with your life. 2nd, as quickly as you're waiting, proportion your tale with the international. human beings could comprehend the severe undesirable outcomes that abortion has, that planned Parenthood will lie to them approximately. you need to use your adventure to maintain different women human beings from making the comparable mistake. third, in no way forget that God loves you, no count what you do.

Answer 6

Good answer! (Sarcasm) you should have been on birthcontrol honey! No excuse for abortion unless you were raped. You should have been taking care of yourself. I was 8 months preganant when I had my second child. I couldn't handle the pressure either. But I dealt with it. Now I have a 7 and an 8 year old who I love dearly!

Answer 7

Dont listen to these relgious holyier than thou and without sin moronic retards that are filling up this forum, I think you made a mature decision considering your cirumstances and we are lucky to be living in an age when termination of a pregancy is a safe option available to women.

You should look at reliable contraception until you are ready or willing to have anouther child, I hear the 3-monthly injection is one of the better options available.

Answer 8

Oh, hey... I understand.

Please consider a permanent form of birth control. You have said that more than 2 is too much. Consider permanent birth control. Most insurance will cover this (except Catholic based). It is cheaper than an abortion. It actually improves your sexual enjoyment.

For your sake (mostly), tie the tubes. No hate, no judgement, just common sense. If you fear more than 2, don't have more than 2.

May the Lord bless you and keep you. May the Lord make his face shine upon you and give you peace forever.

Answer 9

it was probably because you weren't feeling ready enough to deal with the pressure and responsibility of taking care of every aspect of another human being.

i have (a) no idea who you are, and (b) no idea what all you've gone through/are going through but don't dwell on it too much. I mean, it's over and wallowing isn't going to change things. The best you can do at this point is to continue living your life as happily as humanly possible. There's no point in forever feeling horribly.

so yeah... :-) smile

Answer 10

It sounds like you are trying to convince yourself more than us.
There are many post-abortion counseling centers, you should check into one. You can turn this into something positive if you can use it to help others with your experience.

P.S. My son was 8 months old when I found out I was pregnant with my youngest daughter. They are 16 months apart and I have an older daughter as well who was 5 then.