Woman and Sex.?

Question

I am trying to get my girlfriend to get into some kinky sex. I want her to try wired sex, bondage. I love to see woman beg for the sex. she has done some things to me during sex that would be equal or greater in pain. she says that the long term effects are worse on woman than men. help///

Answer 1

do not pressure her, whatever you do. The more comfortable she feels the more likely she is to try new and kinky things. talk about it. allow her to tell you some of her sexual thoughts and things she wants done to her. take it slow and before you know it, ya'll a be tryin all types of things!!

Answer 2

If she doesn't want to do it, there's not a whole lot more you can do. I don't think you'll find anyone on here who will help you trick or convince your girlfriend into having kinky sex. I guess the best thing you could do is just keep gently asking her to do things and if she says that she's not comfortable, then you'll have to respect that.

Answer 3

try something out on her thats not really intense. like maybe use a scarf and tie her hands to the bed post and if she doesn't like that, then you'll know she deffinatly wont be into anything hardcore bondage. you need to ease people into that stuff. maybe she'll get a taste and love it, but if she doesn't, then just give up. you dont wanna force your girl into something do you?

Answer 4

I say what is good for the gander is good for the goose. I think you should use the fact that she has done things to you that she should let you do the same or similar to her.

Turn about is fair play. Tell her if she won't allow it then you won't anymore either.

Good luck, it sure can be fun.

Answer 5

It sounds like she has her mind made up. You're the sub here. Get used to it.