Will that insult him?
2006-08-08 15:48:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Do you think men would take it as an insult on them! Like they were not a good lover?
2006-08-08 15:54:47 · update #1
He's probably aware of his problem and WOULD like to do something about it, but doesn'T know where to turn. Bringing up the subject may just embarrasss him and make him feel very inferior. Try to take control during intercourse. Learn how to control his time by trying different methods to slow things down.
2006-08-08 16:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by David A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it is wrong for you to disrespect your husband in this manor. Does he know that you are asking the world about your personal life, and trying to get resolution from a society that, for the most part, does not live a biblical life, and can not answer your question any better than the bible? If he doesn't then you are being deceitful, and that is by far worse than offending your husband with that request. If you are just looking for a quick answer so that you don't have to look it up yourself, you are seeking the wrong source. Read Song of Solomon, spend more time in prayer, and TALK TO YOUR HUSBAND.
2006-08-08 23:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by jeremy.w@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't. The Bible is clear that anything in the marriage bed between a man and woman is allowed.
Bring it up carefully. Tell him that when he rushes like that that it gives you the feeling that he doesn't care about your wishes and feelings. It may insult him. Men don't like to hear that they aren't doing well in that area but it is only going to hurt your relationship to keep your feelings in and not voice them.
As a wife you are to be submissive but not a doormat. It isn't Biblical.
Also, before you approach him pray and ask the Lord to work on his heart and to show you the right time to bring it up.
2006-08-08 22:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by rltouhe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not wrong for you to tell your husdand that you want pleasure longer. and if he gets insulted. he should not be a preacher, though some preachers think every thing we do that we enjoy is a sin. when in reality its the opposite. God wants us to do what we enjoy. he said be fruitful and multiply. though my wife separated from me years ago because I wanted to go 3 to 4 hours almost every day. so theres no telling what he may think.
maybe hes so sewed up in his religion OR he's getting his on the side and can't perform longer... its just a thought you may want to check on
2006-08-08 23:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by ALPHAOMEGA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be possible for any committed couple to have a frank and open discussion about this. Not necessarily easy, but possible. It might help if you have some solutions to offer, not just an unmet 'need.' Most men want to please their woman, although a lot of them take the Churchill approach. ("I am always willing to learn, but do not always enjoy being taught.")
2006-08-08 23:12:59 · answer #5 · answered by dukefenton 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does it matter if he's a preacher or not? You're both human beings, in love and he is your husband. Just talk to him about it like any other couple would.
Good luck and God bless! ;)
2006-08-08 23:02:50 · answer #6 · answered by elk312 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, it depends on him.
A, you're allowed, Biblically speaking, to want you husband and to want him pretty much as long as you want. Only don't want it 24/7; that's more of a plea, as a fellow man.
B, I dunno why you don't just seduce him? Last time I looked at this it seemed that the wife had loads of utilites that she could use. I mean, like much as I hated being sexually exploited, my wife could do it *when-ever* she wanted. Which annoyed me as a man doesn't have that power.
2006-08-08 23:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl...
If we don't tell them how would they know?*( all men not just preachers)
...just tell him that you enjoy making love to the man God gave you, and you would appreciate more time in that department.
there is nothing wrong with letting him know, before he became a preacher he was born to become a man... your marriage is already blessed before God so it is not a sin nor is it disrespectful.
don't you know that when God made your body and his it was one of his great designs?
it is meant for you to please your husband and for him to please you.
2006-08-08 23:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it will not insult him. Just because he is a preacher you think he wouldn't want to please you? Tell him, you may be surprised at how the spirit may move him!
2006-08-08 23:06:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think honestly it shouldnt be a question if he would be offended..I think you should know if he was going to get offended or not. Religious people like to have sex also...as Im sure you know. If you re in love it should be all good.
2006-08-08 22:53:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋