Many times in life my friend we fall in love with a person who can't love us as we love them. There is a difference between loving and being in love. We have no control over how we feel about people sometimes. You have to find ways, and things to fill your time, so that you don't spend it dwelling on this person. I found it helpful to talk with a therapist when I went through a period of depression. In many cities, there are angencies that can help you at no cost. Please find someone you trust to talk to, in the meantime I'll be praying for you.
God Bless
2006-08-08 16:08:51
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answered by Anonymous
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Trey, there are many things in life to remember, here are some that can help you through your times of pain, but you have to be open-minded enough to really let them help you. You determine your attitude at every point in the day, so why not take into consideration the following. First, to experience the highest highs, you must experience the lowest lows. Next, the only things in life that are worth while are also the hardest things to achieve. If you want something in life you must be willing to put in the time and effort to get it. In order for us to marvel at the beauty of a rainbow, we must first tolerate the rain. I guess the point I'm trying to make is sometimes life deals us a crappy hand, everyone gets them, what is really important in those times is how we decide to let that hand effect us. There is light at the end of every dark tunnel, so keep on and you will eventually reach it.
2006-08-08 15:50:04
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answered by mstang 2
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What is wrong with you?Life is to short to be this way. Go out and volunteer at a nursing home, help at a food kitchen, help at a homeless shelter. Smile, all of these places have people in them,worse then you. In addition, how about acting your age. Things could be worse,you could be dead.If you need a penpal you write to my email johnbenn_2000@yahoo.com...i'll answer.
2006-08-08 15:46:51
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answered by Anonymous
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You are not alone I onc felt like you do I know you have goten alot of anwers, but I believe without a shadow of doubt, that only GOD himself can help you,he is real he is there and he see's everything you are going through, I don't know anything about what you are going through right now , but please talk to GOD he cant help unless you go to him first,he is just waiting to save you from what sounds like somthing that could get out of control ,seek ye the kingdom of heaven and all things will be added un to you, especially the peace you seek.
2006-08-08 15:59:41
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answered by BLONDBOMB 2
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Dont be sad. Get out and meet some people so you are not lonely. Get on meds if you are for sure depressed!
2006-08-08 15:43:48
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answered by sweetnessmo 5
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hey.
i went through the same stage, you are just going through a different stage in your life. you eventually get through it and look back on it and ask yourself" ... why? what was wrong with me?"
do you get it? when it happened to me, i solved my problems by cutting myself and that scarred me for life and now still have those moments attached to me that i wish i could just forget. so for your own good, dont start, or stop useing self destruction to help you fell "better". just try to go out and meet some people!
i hope i could help, and if you have any more questions then email me at new_big_sis13@yahoo.com!
2006-08-08 15:49:24
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answered by Anonymous
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Take some control of your life and get out there and shake it. Smile make someone smile, it is corny but someone may be falling in love with your smile right now....well not right now if you are frowning:)
2006-08-08 15:45:44
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answered by Anonymous
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Here is a little "BOB" therapy for you.
Look in the mirror and repeat 3 times "I FEEL GOOD, I FEEL
GREAT, I FEEL WONDERFUL'. After saying that you repeat
3 times " I AM GOOD, I AM GREAT, I AM WONDERFUL"
Smile! and the world smiles with you>
2006-08-08 15:49:00
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answered by rita k 1
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I`m sad,lonely,depressed, i don`t know what to do
sorry, i can`t help you
2006-08-08 15:46:36
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answered by Your best friend 6
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We all have really rough times in life. I guess that is so we appreciate the good times more...
2006-08-08 15:47:01
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answered by Couple of Cents 5
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