I've been with my boyfriend for one year and half. he changed a lot before we always use to be together and we always talked about us getting married and having fun. now all he does is go out alone with his best friend or stays home. i see him 1 or 2 times a week. so i talk to him about it and i told him thats bothering me that hes not spending time with me and he's not the same with me anymore. he told me leave me alone for little let me go out with my friend and give me sometime to miss you and he says trust me i'll go back the way i was with you. he said just leave me alone for little dont be with me all the time and you'll see me go back the way i was with you. so what should i do? please help me....
2006-08-08 15:38:22 · 4 answers · asked by faith 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like you were smothering him by spending all of your time with him. People need some time to spend with their friends. Just let him spend some time without you, he is still giving you some of his time.
2006-08-08 15:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a thing called 'too much togetherness' give him some space and see what he does with it.
2006-08-08 22:47:20 · answer #2 · answered by johnnydean86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's backing off............ maybe you need to seriously think about how badly you want to be with him. If he's changed so drasticly now, and your only dating, what would married life be like????
2006-08-08 22:44:46 · answer #3 · answered by kim h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he just needs his space
2006-08-08 22:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋