My husband and I have been together for 12 years, 8 of those years in marriage. We grew up together, but didn't really get involved, until later on, in life. My husband is white and here lately, the same people that he grew up with, (mostly black men) that are black and supposed to be his friends, talk crap to me, behind his back. They are always telling me that i'm too beautiful to be with a white man and that I should be, next to a black mans side. I think that's so unfair, considering they have white girlfriends. I haven't told my husband what they say, because I don't want any trouble. I told them, what business is it of theirs anyway, I don't judge them, by who they date. When I dated and later married my husband, color never crossed my mind. Should I tell my husband?
2006-08-08 15:30:26 · 4 answers · asked by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Whoa! This is major sexual harassment and if you don't let your Husband know, he may be even more upset later. Tell him you want it to stop! By not saying anything, you're pretty much telling these guys that they can say anything to you behind his back. Which means they have no respect for you OR your Husband!
2006-08-08 15:40:24 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these so called Friends are just dogs woof woofin & crotch sniffin like dogs do if you listen to them its your fault my wife would cuss someone out yes you should tell hubby to me its really bad to know someone is talkin smack about a loved 1 behind there back & let the loved 1 continue trying to be freinds ignorant of the trechery
2006-08-08 22:46:29 · answer #2 · answered by assaultwpn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your husband so that he will know who his friends really are and are not. You two are a team.
2006-08-08 22:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by who WAS #1? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember that people get jealous and try to start stuff!!!
2006-08-08 22:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by crazychik17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋