I HAVE A SON THAT IS 2..I DIDNT TAKE NO PAIN MEDICINE WITH HIM AND RIGHT BEFORE HE CAME OUT THE GAVE ME A SHOT IN MY ..PUSS*....I THINK THEY DID THAT BECAUSE THEY KNEW HE WAS GOING TO TEAR ME..I AM 10 WEEKS AND ALREADY GETTING SCARED OF HAVING ANOTHER BABY? ANYONE ELSE SCARED WITH THIER SECOND...PEOPLE SAY THE FIRST IS THE HARDEST..I WAS IN LABOR 15 HOURS WITH NO MEDICINE...
2006-08-08 15:14:36 · 7 answers · asked by Deshawn & Keshawn's mom 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
sounds like you are young...as you know labor and pregnancy is hard but can be the most beautiful moment in your life...there will be a time when you can't give birth anymore...and that will be sad even if you don't want kids anymore...you should concentrate on the beauty of having a child and not the pain...you have to go through all the prickers to get to the rose..
2006-08-08 15:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by tweetz 3 · 10⤊ 6⤋
I was scared with my second. My first 2 were only 14 months apart. My first child was a boy and I labored 28 hours with him and had no medication. My second was a girl and I was SCREAMING epidural at 4 cm. She was all back labor. So the saying that the first is your hardest doesn't always hold true. BTW she was a 14 hour labor so it did get cut in half.
2006-08-08 22:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by mommysrock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am trying for my second and I am scared I will have the same difficult time.
I had bad cramps (doubled over), spotting, and horrible morning sickness until I was 5 months. During my fifth month I got to enjoy being pregnant with no pains and my daughter had just started kicking. FOR ONE MONTH! At 6 months the braxton hicks (that my doctor said more like REAL contracts and to pay VERY close attention to them) and major back pain kicked in. I went into labor tuesday at 3 am (jan 18 2005), back labor, I had NO CLUE and went to work. Ended up cussing out an older coworker to leave me the F*** alone because she kept telling me to get up and I just wanted to sit (i was ALLOWED to), she went and told the manager who asked me to go home or let him take me to the hospital, I said I was FINE and to just LEAVE ME ALONE. He told everyone to leave me ALONE! The back pain got worse Wed morn at 3 AM and by 10 I called the doctor. I got there at 11 and he said I was 7 cm and to go straight to labor and delivery, i was given an epi (i couldn't stand the back pain) and she was born at 5:16. I was in labor for a little over 38 hours (33 hours without drugs and I worked a full shift and 5 hours with an epi).
It does have me scared because I also didn't get much help from coworkers which made the pregnancy even HARDER. I am excited, but still scared. I can't wait to get pregnant again, I just really hope it goes a lot easier this time.
2006-08-08 22:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by Crazy Mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a very easy pregnancy and labor with both my children.
I did not have melds with either one of them. I was not scared either time. Some people have bad experiences with the first delivery and are naturally scared the second time around.
All will be fine :)
2006-08-08 22:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by tigergirl301 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my first labor was not too bad kinda long but my second was short BUT was way worse. I have always heard that the 2nd is easier and faster well I know for me the 2nd was faster I don't know about the easier part. good luck and congrats.
BOTH WERE WITH NO MEDS
2006-08-08 23:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by embsmg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take meds this time if you're scared, with my first..I felt so strongly that no meds were important..the last one I read Epideral..and felt much better after..
2006-08-08 22:18:58 · answer #6 · answered by Selena D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter how many kids you have it is always scary, it just seems worse cause now you know what to expect, just relax....enjoy it.
2006-08-08 22:22:53 · answer #7 · answered by thepainter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋