i have had a relationship in the past with a17 year old, going on 18, and im 14, and he cheated on me, but said it wasnt his fault. and latley (we're still friends) he's been hinting that he want another chance and another relationship with me. do you think that its possible for me to ever trust him again? or do you think that he'll commit to me and me only? or do you think the difference is just to big?
2006-08-08 14:53:57 · 12 answers · asked by smiley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wasn't his fault??? He cheated on you and it wasn't his fault?? Oh, c'mon. That's a coward's excuse. No....don't do this again. Besides, once he turns 18, he's old enough to be accused of and prosecuted for statutory rape. Grab a good guy your age. He's not worth your effort. You're better than that.
2006-08-08 14:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he wants his cake and wants to eat it too. He doesn't want to do what a relationship takes, mainly staying faithful, and yet he doesn't want to let you go. You need to get rid of him because he is a loser if not because of the age difference. And from my angle it cannot ever be someone else's fault that he made the actions he did. No one can force someone to cheat, he made the choice and I'm sure very willingly. You should go find someone closer to your age that has not breached your trust (it's super hard to get back) and someone who has common interests as you. Ditch the dog because once a dog always a dog. And the next time he does it to you, you cant say you didn't know, because you do. And think about how stupid that will make you look. Good luck with the whole situation, use your head.
2006-08-08 22:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by ttti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the age difference is too much, but he will definitely cheat again. I think you're better off staying friends because if you take him back, it may send the message that he can get away with it again. If he still feels this way in another 5 years or so, then maybe give the relationship another shot.
2006-08-08 21:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by Rexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can trust him because as soon as he turns 18 your jail bait and he will be in prison so the only people he will be able to cheat on you with are other men(and he may not have a choice there).
2006-08-08 22:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 14 is he now 18? it really isnt in your best interest to see him again, plus if your parents dont like it guess waht statutory rape charges against him by your folks. and what do you mean by cheated were you having sex and then he had sex with someone else or were you dating and he went out with someone else. if sex is involved it is totally his fault if not he may have a case but i would stay away from this guy kinda creepy.
2006-08-08 22:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him another chance, if he wants another chance that means he likes u but yet agian he did cheat on u, well jsut give him another chance and see how things turn out
2006-08-08 22:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by Ledzeppelin324 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated and it wasn't his fault? Girl it takes two to tango...... dump the bum and date more within your age group for now.
2006-08-08 21:58:44 · answer #7 · answered by Eldude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU THINK HE WILL NOT DO IT THE FIRST TIME A GOOD LOOKING GIRLS COME HIS WAY you wrong HE WILL i seen it happen more than i like to say DONT DO IF YOU YOU CRY OVER HIM AGIN OK
2006-08-08 22:02:07 · answer #8 · answered by do it good 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO OUT WITH SOMEONE YOUR OWN AGE AND STOP WITH THE OLDER MEN! OMG! YOUR STILL YOUNG FIND SOME BOY WHO LIKES PENCIAL BOXS AND BOX CARS!
2006-08-08 21:58:40 · answer #9 · answered by babyice201 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aint no one want to go to jail..get em ur own age
2006-08-08 21:57:42 · answer #10 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋