2006-08-08 14:52:03 · 40 answers · asked by baby_cakes_2758 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It used to really bother me a lot when I was first seeing him, but now we have been married for 14 years and I know him sooo well, and it may still bother me just a small, small bit, but honestly...I am over it very quickly. I trust that I am the one he wants and I just let it go.
2006-08-08 14:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by ShineOn 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok so does that mean that if you have a car you like you shouldnt look at other cars that appeal to you just because you have one that you like??? No, just as long as you dont go talkin or touchin its perfeclty fine, oh dont be staring all down someones throat either thats non verbal communication but a quick look, whats the big deal Im still with you and not messin with nobody else, I wouldnt get mad if my girl was lookin at another guy as long as it wasnt a stare or it was like they were lookin at each other. I realize that there are certain things people like and that I am not the only one that has these things, as long as it isnt done in a disrespectful manner and shes with me only I dont see the problem.
2006-08-11 21:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by puresplprix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course what women if honest would not admit that. No matter how confident a women is in her own body and looks we all get a little green eyed about that .But when he looks at me with the love in his eyes I just smile / say he is ALL mine.As we walk away smiling and hand in hand to a life to-gether.
2006-08-08 15:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by snowball 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a trick question? First of all if your guy is looking at other girls on front of you why is he with you in the first place. I had it happen to me before. I let the guy know how I felt about it and he huffed and puffed but he got the picture. It's down right disrespectful. I know guys lilke to look but don't do it in front of your girl where's the respect in that? We all like to look we're human. Show some respect that's all there is to it.
2006-08-08 15:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course we all girls get jealous wheter if its our boyfriend or husband, and even when you dont think that you are jealous you still are =). Its a natural feeling, in my opinion i think that a little jealousy maybe good for a realtionship. Too much is not, i always, i mean always get jealous when my boyfriend stares at other girls =( GRRR ,makes me want to sky rocket off and yell at him, but nothing is going to ever stop them guys, so get use to it.
2006-08-08 14:58:27 · answer #5 · answered by Wonderful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Occasionally, but you have to remember that its natural. If I see a hot guy by all means I will definately look. Men are just a little bit more obnoxious about it. Just because he looks at other women doesnt mean he is going to drop you and everything else to bang her. And if he does he was a dirtbag anyways- case closed.
2006-08-08 14:57:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy is going to look. But if he is stareing at women.. and you notice it. There's a problem, because he might be cheating or thinking it. I had a guy in TJ maxx gaucking at me and kept walking by me when I was in the store looking at stuff. And I found how he was with his wife or girl. And he was doing it infront of her, I'm sorry but I really hate that. Is he looking at them, the way he looks at you? Watch him.... he should have eyes for you and only you really. Other girls should not matter
2006-08-08 14:56:31 · answer #7 · answered by prettyartisichuskey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you have an open relationship then you should have the trust in him not to act as long as his looking doesn't go into some serious "checking out" if so ask yourself why.Is it because you are not keeping yourself physically to his standards or do you treat him like a child and belittle him for dumb little things or do you expect him to focus soley one you and only you (selfish), are you boring, is there anything you can do to make things better to the above statements?
It takes 2 to tango, and don't forget guys take alot longer to mature, realize this and take it into account and have fun with it, getting mad makes the relationship worse (eyes start wondering....)
2006-08-08 15:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of coruse am 'jelious' i mean sometimes i know that he isnt goin to leave me because of the love he has for me and everythin but other times am thinkin to myself wat if hes over me uh? how can i deal with it...the thing it i can and...it he keeps on lookin at them i cant help that either but in other for the relationship to move along i have to TRUST him like he say...
so I dont think you should worry bout him lookin at other gurls if he tells you to trust that nothing is goin to happen
2006-08-08 15:07:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man I hate it And Think It's not fare I try to check out men and get in trouble for it but men don't care know matter what girl the have the could have jlo and still look ,it sucks I know but just slap him evey time you catch him!
2006-08-08 15:00:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋