I'm going out with this wonderful guy and I really love him, but I'm only 15 and I'm starting to realize that I probably won't be with him forever. So, I'm talking to all these guys and i really like one of them, and he likes me back. I've been with the guy i'm dating for almost 6 months and I'm starting to want to date other people. But he's always telling me how much i mean to him and that I'm the world to him, and that he doesn't know what he'd do if he would ever lose me. But lately all he's been wanting to do is touch me and he uses sexual content with me whenever we're trying to talk. And this other guy's really trying to find some stuff out about me and he sounds pretty interested. I'm just wanting to date other people. I don't know what to do. Should I stay with him? Or should we just break it off for a while and if we really want each other we could just get back together later. I don't want to hurt anybody. and i want to do what's best. I need help.
2006-08-08 14:27:46 · 12 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Aah, this is the same question that comes in "The Phantom Of The Opera". The story is about a woman named Christine and two men named Raoul: the handsome, and Erik (Phantom/Opera Ghost), the ugly.Christine fell in love with Raoul, but she was loyal 2 Erik because he was her tutor. The story ends by Erik dies in a broken heart, and Raoul and Christine ran away living happily ever after. Well my answer 4 your question is break up with him forever. Who knows, he might kidnapped you and do something use full 4 him.
Ask me anything,
Yamunah......
2006-08-08 14:36:06 · answer #1 · answered by ErC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in your paragraph-long question, I believe you gave yourself some advice. If he's using sexual content when you're talking and always trying to touch you, then break it off for a while, and if you truly want each other, then get back together. As far as you not wanting to hurt anyone, well, chances are that he is going to get his feelings hurt. So when you break up with him, just explain that you need a break from this relationship and you would like to see what else is out there. Good Luck!
2006-08-08 21:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good question. You are right to think that at your age you are unlikely to be with the same guy forever. Your current relationship is coming to an end and I think you recognize this and so does your partner, which might be why he is acting so desperate. You need to end it, I think, and go out with someone new for a while. Your current boyfriend will be hurt when you break up but he will get over it. Move on and don't worry, you'll both be fine.
2006-08-08 21:36:49 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you don't like one of them. It is as simple as that. You are also very young and that is the age where that happens the most, you don't really like anyone but like everybody, there isn't a concrete type of guy you like, even though you may think so. You haven't formed your full personality and you are still discovering who you are. That is perfectly normal. And hurt is part of the process too, you will have to let some go and sometimes harshly. It seems that one of them is just trying it on with you too, so I would suggest you to stay away from him. He is definately only after one thing. And that's what is best in that case.
Until you find your guy, you will go through a few, believe me. Take this as big brotherly advice. :)
Regards,
Doppelganger
2006-08-08 21:35:50 · answer #4 · answered by Doppelganger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am a 18 year old guy so not much older than u. Be real. If your not into your boyfriend, let him go. It only gets harder the longer u try to hold onto it. And do not have sex until your ready, and at 15 u r not ready. Remember some guy named WES told u this.
2006-08-08 22:34:58 · answer #5 · answered by makaveli1788 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that you're still a kid, at least of somebodies. At your age, the World is the Limit. Don't do anything stupid. You know what I mean. It's tough, I know. Keep yourself chaste. Resist the temptations, even though you know it would feel good. With a little bit more age comes a lot more wisdom. WAIT!
2006-08-08 21:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by Johnny P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your only 15 try to stay in the 15 year old dating mode. dating someone for6 months is really not that long.Hang out and date different people be a teen and you'll meet that special someone when you least except it.
2006-08-08 21:43:59 · answer #7 · answered by burgers3@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are only 15 you will break alot of hearts and have yours broken to.But get this out of your system before the real life starts of I Iove you.It will no longer be a game.You can't love someone and cheat and say I love you one day love someone new the next.You don't play with people's hearts when you get older.
2006-08-08 21:39:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a jerk. Pick one guy and stick with him for a while. Its not your fault if you hurt someone anyway, its part of life. you won't be marrying anytime soon anyway so date around
2006-08-08 21:36:44 · answer #9 · answered by humbucker740 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a wa dis
2006-08-08 21:31:25 · answer #10 · answered by boy_jam_arch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋