my friend thinks shes got boobs but she doesnt she is flat she has a padded bra,its an 30a she says she fills it out but its way to big on her she is getting anooying cause she keeps saying omg im getting bigger boobs than you are which im a b cup.and shes always saying mandy look my niple is grownig off of my boob but its not!!! how do i tell her nicley that shes flatter than a bored!!
2006-08-08 14:15:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I wouldn't let it bother me if I were you. If she says her boobs are growing bigger than yours let her. One day and I know for sure this will happen, she is going to say that in front of the right person and they are going to tell her otherwise so don't worry you won't even have to tell her. Let nature take its course and if you want to speed up the process, ask a mutual friend while both of you are hanging out together if they think her breast is bigger than yours. Obviously they will say no and out of shear embarrassment, she will never bring it up again guaranteed!
2006-08-08 14:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by sam 7 · 18⤊ 0⤋
If you value this friendship you will be able to either tolerate this insecurity of hers. She is probably just excited to 'think' that she is starting to look more like a woman. Or you should be able to tell your friend that you do not know why she insists on speaking about her breasts all the time. As your friend, she should be able to drop the issue.
2006-08-08 21:23:04 · answer #2 · answered by Britta 1 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that everyone is made differently and that people come in all shapes and sizes.
By the way - what difference does it make to you what her boob size is? If she thinks they are big for her - so be it! It's not going to hurt anyone.
2006-08-08 21:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by Skiingred 3 · 10⤊ 2⤋
Well, I would be nice to her because chances are if she's a late bloomer her boobs will get much bigger than yours and then she will make fun of you.
2006-08-08 21:21:50 · answer #4 · answered by Annabanana 4 · 6⤊ 2⤋
all telling her she is flat will do is start an argument...just let her keep thinkin she's dolly parton....tell her she's spending too much time obsessing over it and to focus on something else...just let her know that it's not a boob growing competition and that it really doesn't matter...
2006-08-08 21:20:04 · answer #5 · answered by kuntry_guhl 3 · 22⤊ 1⤋
The best think to do would be just to agree and then she will shut up
2006-08-08 21:20:42 · answer #6 · answered by Chris Lee 1 · 7⤊ 2⤋
why do you care? So she has confidence in herself. let her believe what she wants shes not hurting anybody is she? Just let her go. Take a Xanny or something.
2006-08-08 21:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 4⤋
why tell her? if she is your friend let her think so keep her happy!
2006-08-08 21:21:01 · answer #8 · answered by DUSTY 3 · 9⤊ 2⤋
have her try your bra on, if you are bigger than it'll look funny on her!
2006-08-08 21:20:22 · answer #9 · answered by lulucakes32 5 · 9⤊ 2⤋
First off, spell check.
Second you need to punch her in the boob. This probably won't solve anything. But it will probably make you happy and shut her up.
2006-08-08 22:26:32 · answer #10 · answered by amish_renegade 4 · 7⤊ 9⤋