like im thinking of moving to LA, but i have many doubts.
2006-08-08 14:14:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
The best thing to do is list the positive and negative aspects of moving. I think it sounds great for a city life, however that will depend on where you live now and career, friends, house, etc. you may leave behind.
You should answer what you feel uncertain about? Why are you moving or wanting to move? What do you want out of life?
2006-08-08 14:20:28 · answer #1 · answered by Pinkish Marsh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have doubts you should do more reasearch into the move. What is it that you fear about the move or is there something niggleing at the back or you mind. If any of this happens you may need to first take a trip there to see how it feels and what you like and dislike. One thing I can tell you from experience is that when you move and take into account the expenses, cost of the move, difference in cost of living and the loss of friends and familiar surrounding the price can be too high. It will tend to be that after a time you will end up in exactly the same place as you would be if you stayed where you are. Unless you are a professional seeking career advancement and your shot at the big time you may be better to just stay put.
2006-08-08 21:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by Kenneth H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have doubts, you need to think about whether your doubts are outweighing your wants on leaving.
If you think you will change your mind and regret it, then you probably should go.
If you think you will get there and regret it, then stay.
2006-08-08 21:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by sheristeele 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing holding you back is fear of failure. Spread your wings, there is a reason you considered the move in the first place, right?
2006-08-08 21:18:54 · answer #4 · answered by kittycollector32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your reasoning is completely correct. Listen to your doubts.
2006-08-08 21:18:07 · answer #5 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you should make reasonable well informed decisions based on facts. knowing as much as possible, if then you feel off listen to your inner voice. but push the comfy zone boundaries out each time. we need to all grow, not remain too comfortable
2006-08-08 21:18:40 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Spock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My motto thru life has been "when in doubt....leave it out" and it has always worked for me!!
2006-08-08 21:18:31 · answer #7 · answered by ellegee3012 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you gotta straighten out the pros and cons then you will clear out your uncertain thoughts bout it.
2006-08-08 21:18:10 · answer #8 · answered by maggotier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with ur Gut
2006-08-08 21:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by pinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The general consensus is, "When in doubt, DON'T".
2006-08-08 21:26:50 · answer #10 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋