I'm 32 years old and have never ever lost someone close to me. Lately I can't stop worrying about losing anyone close to me. I never used to give it much thought before but now it's quite often. What's going on with me? How can I stop worrying?
2006-08-08 14:09:48 · 11 answers · asked by Pamela 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because eventually it will happen. It is "part of the deal". I lost my grandfather last year and it was awful. He was more of a Dad than mine had ever been. I get weird obsessions like that some times. Best advice. If you are feeling like that. Call the ones close to you and tell them you love them. I (un)fortunately have some strange sixth sense about stuff like that in my life, and have learned pick up the phone to say, how's the weather, just wanted you to know I was thinking about you and LOVE you. Do it you cannot stop what is meant to be, only make yourself crazy with worry. Sleep well.
2006-08-08 14:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by iceberg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
32 years old and never lost anyone close to you???!!!...by the time i was 33, i had lost both my parents and all grandparents and my younger brother.....thank the lucky stars that you have been so fortunate to have them all around and feel blessed to still have them in your life!!!.....it is terrible to loose the people you love and takes a long time to recover, but try not to waste this time worrying about that and ENJOY every moment you have.with them...you can't control life and when it ends, but you can help everyone live a healthy life style and see the doctor when something is wrong......
if it is consuming you...try to talk to them(your family) and maybe they can help you deal with your fears... if that doesn't ease your worries, maybe you can talk to a professional......it's OK to worry a little about the future, but so much more, enjoy the moments...they are precious!!!! good luck to you and be happy
2006-08-08 14:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by m m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you fear death because you've never experienced the loss of someone close to you. Do you also worry excessively about lots of other things too? Worry will not make one bit of difference in what happens or to whom or when. If you need help, please talk to a doctor or a counselor. There's help for you!
2006-08-08 14:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to think a lot about that. But I think theres not much anyone can say or do to stop you from worrying about it. Its a time thing. Sure people can say things that makes u feel a little bit better but it always be there. we all have our time, I be pushing up daiseys one day theres no stopping death.
2006-08-08 14:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by silversurfer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this irrational concern at the same time as i became youthful that each and every time my mom and father went out they could very likely die in a vehicle crash. quickly i began depending a lot less on my mom and father and made contingency plans for the worst that ought to happen. the phobia has stopped considering the fact that 2 years back.
2016-10-15 11:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by stever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because of the affection and support U get from that person which U dread about losing suddenly one day
2006-08-08 14:13:45 · answer #6 · answered by DEAR T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may potentially have deep seeded fear of abandonment issues that have never been dealt with!
2006-08-08 14:38:27 · answer #7 · answered by Indigo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be a sign of an anxiety disorder, go see your doctor and tell him this asap...sounds like it could be generalized anxiety disorder or could be obessessive compulsive disorder...take care
2006-08-08 16:48:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once it happens you'll deal with it, then get over it. It will pass.
2006-08-08 14:14:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it to God! Let him handle the situation! don't stress on something you can't fix YOURSELF!!
2006-08-08 14:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by countrysoonergurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋