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I am a single parent of three boys and it seems like I just can't find a man that is serious enough to be in a relationship with a single mother of three is it ever going to be possible.

2006-08-08 14:05:05 · 17 answers · asked by lisa199133 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

17 answers

Few and far between.

2006-08-08 14:13:39 · answer #1 · answered by dick_coxnbutz 2 · 0 0

I love kids, and I have 3 of my own.
With my own marriage on the rocks, I have the same worries.

Here's the main obstacle. Kids (not your own) add a layer of complexity to a relationship. It's hard enough getting to know another person without having to worry if her kids will accept you, or you them. Our lives are so busy already without having to add more responsiblities to it.

Me..I wouldn't hesitate. I see kids as a great part of a new relationship. But, I am lucky. My income means that I wouldn't worry about a new financial burden. My job allows me tremendous flexiblity in schedule. I also appreciate what great qualities a 'mom' must possess. In fact, a women in my age bracket (35 to 45) who didn't have kids would worry me more.

Be a great mother and put it out there with pride. That's the only way of finding a guy that will love you all.

2006-08-08 21:21:47 · answer #2 · answered by hellsbells 2 · 0 0

Yes it is...I am a single mother of three (2 boys and a baby girl)...there is a wonderful man that would do anything for me and my children. the only problem I run into is that I keep him at a certain distance because I am so scared that my children are going to get hurt if something goes wrong with me and him...which is something I obviously need to work on. be patient...enjoy your children and the rest will fall into place. good luck!

2006-08-08 21:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by sctmoran 2 · 0 0

I wish I lived where some of you are from.
It doesn't matter what you bring to the table with you, it's weather the table can hold it all. I'm sure some of these arrogant men you've met have dirty laundry of their own.

A women with children signify: a women that's not only her own home maker, but it shows she has the stamina of being able to survive when things are tough. Her independence is her "Rock" and a man should be honored to share in her world.

This ain't no script either.......my mom was also one heck of a single mother.

Score:
Single Moms: (239) - Dead beat Dads (0)

2006-08-08 21:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 0 0

all of us in the same bed ? now that is against the law! but seriously my asawa(wife)had 3 kids when I met her, living in the Philippines and me in the USA, didn't stop me from selling everything I owned and moving over here to spend eternity with, she has more to offer than just 3 kids, also if a guy don't want your kids, but tells you how much he loves you that's a bunch of crap you are a package deal all or nothing so count your lucky stars forget the sugar daddy get a better job or 2 find a dependable baby sitter or relative to help with the kids you don't need a man as much as you need your kids anyway.

2006-08-08 21:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by sungasawa 2 · 0 0

I was with a single mother of 2 daughters and I ended up supporting them for 2 years only for her to cheat on me and get married to the another guy. She still expects me to buy her daughters clothes and even school supplies today!

So now I won't consider dating anyone with kids unless they plan on having my kid soon after.

2006-08-08 21:14:25 · answer #6 · answered by NOVA50 3 · 0 0

sure it is possible but you need to keep looking.most good men are the ones that are still married.so the second best are the ones that are divorced,because the wife screwed around on them.try a support group for single parents.

2006-08-08 21:11:04 · answer #7 · answered by spocklogical1 3 · 0 0

I really do believe that there are! You just have to be careful and really look in the right places. I had 4 children by a previous marraige and he had 2. He was committed to family and so he understood what I was looking for.

2006-08-08 21:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by spunky_blonde_nurse 2 · 0 0

I'm seeing a woman with three boys. And I have three boys of my own. What's the big deal?

2006-08-08 21:12:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Mom; there are afew guys out. Most are jerks and it is not easy sortin them out. Take your time and always put yourself and kids first. If a man reaally loves you he will accept you with all the baggage that you bring. All the BEST ON YOUR QUEST.

2006-08-08 21:11:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I think if a guy is truly serious about you, then the kids only add to the relationship. I do think it is possible.

2006-08-08 21:10:26 · answer #11 · answered by Mark 3 · 1 0

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