then he decided that he wanted me back. I wouldn't take him back but decided to hang out with him and be friends. My ex-friend, his ex now also and her 3 friends waited for me to come out of my home and as I walked to the store they followed me and beat me up. My eyes are both swollen and my lip is all cut an bleeding. I feel like my teeth are pushed back. my ankle feels twisted too and a chunk of my hair is missing...I'm thinking of phoning the police but I don't know. I'm scared now of what to do. My gramps just died too a few days ago. I live with my mom and she is at her friends and I'm scared to phone and tell her. What should I do?
2006-08-08 13:43:59 · 21 answers · asked by madeline r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Phone your mom. She'd want you to. Tell her what happened and then call the police and file a report. Take care of your cut lip, but don't change clothes until the police have spoken with you.
Whatever your ex-friend and her friends might think you did, that's no justification for assault and battery. They committed a crime and should be held accountable for their actions.
2006-08-08 13:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live in New York so I know how it is to be beat up but if you call the Police then you will be considered a snitch and then the girls still beat you up later on when they come out and if you don't phone the police they still harass you so if I were you I would call the police and have a Order of Protection put out hey what the heck there is nothing else bad that could happen right?.....
2006-08-08 20:50:26 · answer #2 · answered by rcat1777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that cruel people only act out of fear. Inside, these ex-friends are more scared than you are. I would call the police as scary as it sounds. If nothing else, take pictures of the injuries. Write down the sequence of events on paper while it's still fresh in your mind. (Make sure to include the date.) This way you can prove your story later, if necessary. Even if all the police do is document the case, you will at least have an actual record on file if there are more problems in the future.
2006-08-08 20:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by les_etoiles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom that it happened so that she could keep an close eye on you. Phone the police and get a restraining order against her and her friends so her friends can't attack you as well. It's alright to be scared sometimes but if you don't do something about it now they keep attacking you.
2006-08-08 20:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by Kal-el 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let someone know, first call your mom and then call the police they will take a report and pictures in case this happens again. You also probably need to go to a doctor to get a report just in case you did hurt something badly. Don't be afraid just call now!!
2006-08-08 20:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anna Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was never your friend from the beginning. Friends don't disrespect their other friends. If she was your friend she would not have even gone out your x-boyfriend. Your so call x-boyfriend was never your friend either both of them just used you for either convenience or monetary gifts from you. Move on and remember their will be more friends to come into you life but remember not all of them are going to stay!!!! call your MOTHER & THE POLICE ASAP
2006-08-08 20:54:43 · answer #6 · answered by high five 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!!!
I know this is a very scarey thing u are going through and i know that u are really scared. This hasn't happened to me but i really feel for you. I would call your mom and tell her then call the police
2006-08-08 21:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing exactly what your ex friend is hoping you will do. Do you want to worry about coming out of your house, or do something done about the thugs? Call your Mom!!!!!
2006-08-08 20:51:46 · answer #8 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ought to call the police. If you don't, you'd be giving the impression that it doesn't matter what they did to you but it does, it's assault and no one is allowed to do that to you. This boy doesn't know what he wants, so I think you'd be better off without him in your life. And find some better friends to hand out with.
2006-08-08 20:51:29 · answer #9 · answered by deedee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police immediately...after all none of this was your fault, the police will take care of everything making sure they dont get near you...and if they do serious consequences will follow...oh and sorry about your Gramps...
2006-08-08 20:49:10 · answer #10 · answered by Janine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋