well we all when out just the other night and it was just a few friends and w saw my friends boyfriend with aother girl tey have 1 year and some moths so what should i do
2006-08-08 13:41:22 · 6 answers · asked by sweets 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She has a right to know- do tell her, because you don't want her to waste her time with a guy who clearly doesn't care about her. Break it to her gently, but don't wait- she needs to know- you don't want this guy to give her a disease either!
2006-08-08 13:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by ?princesshousewife? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She really need to know and since you saw him she would want to hear it from you now. If you do not tell her then she'll be upset because you knew about it and didn't tell her. Nowadays, things are different and people take things in a different way (called a trust thing). You can go out and invite her with you and then point out what she need to see. (Make sure you know where and when he'll be out again.) Or take a video camera or a camera to take a snap shot and show it to her. She will need to see with her own eyes as it will be the final say. You tell her without proof then she may not believe you and it may cause problem between the two of you. She can ask her boyfriend to see if it is true and you know some guys won't fess up to it. That is why proof is better in the long run.
Good Luck!
2006-08-08 13:53:08 · answer #2 · answered by Paula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't because she will turn on you for hurting her. Believe me she will find out soon enough on her own. You should be the one she can turn to when she needs you. Good luck.
2006-08-08 13:47:41 · answer #3 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are a true friend you will tell her, she deserves to know especially if he is sleeping with other people and doesn't use protection, she could end up with something. I know I would want to know if my man was messing around on me.
2006-08-08 13:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anna Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell my friend. If they have been together for a while I doubt she will believe you and when they break up she'll be blaming you. Trust me... let her see it for herself. She gotta see it to believe it if she in love.
2006-08-08 13:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by *Shayla* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him u saw him w/ the other girl and tell him to break up w/ one of them or u can tell Ur friend
2006-08-08 13:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by jmlover777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋