because the guy you liked desided he like your girlfriend so now you've lost them both she is no longer a friend and he isn't around anymore he lives with her now I miss the fun we all use to have and I miss the talks. I miss them both him maybe more but still both of them. I've tried to talk to them they won't talk to me.
2006-08-08 13:04:47 · 12 answers · asked by Just4fun2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all they are not very good friends they should have at least talked to you about how they were feeling before anything happened. But that didn't happen. Maybe try writing an email or a letter and just explain to them how you feel and see what happens, Worst case senerio you are better off without them. What goes around comes arounf and they wiil get there turn. A relationship that starts out with cheating has a huge chance of not working because it starts out with a lie, they will soon think the other is cheating and it won't last long then they will both be back for you. I just hope that you protect yourself because they don't deserve you at all.
2006-08-08 13:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by Jolee N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you get nasty with them? Maybe they are trying to avoid you because of the embarrassing situation. Give them time and they will come about.
I am sorry that you are going through this. I always seem to fall for the same girls as my best Friend and it always got me feeling strange and the loser of the bunch.
I have had some odd situations with ex-girlfriends of his and mine that make want to slap me up side my head back then. lol
We all learn from these experiences. as long as it happened in a friendly way you should be ok. Do not let it get to you. We all make mistakes and life takes us through some strange and hard times, but what would life be with out it.
You should talk to someone about your feelings, just to get it off your chest. It helps wonders, even if the other person does not say a word. :) You are bound to have somebody ells that you can trust.
Best thing to also help freshen your feelings up is to go out and socialize with new people. Do an activity you have never done before or find interestting and work on it. try to get involved with other people what ever it takes and you will find somebody of interes to you.
Just keep trucking and things will be looking up
Gregory
2006-08-08 20:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by Gregory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without sounding overly religious...I pray. I've found that God is always there, and will always listen, when no one else will.
Friends come and go throughout our lives, our needs change, our friends change. It's just part of life. I have friends that I've just simply lost touch with over the years, but then I've had friends that for one reason or another, no longer consider a friend. It's time for you to make some new friends. If you're a student, then the new school year coming up is a perfect opportunity! Best of luck to you.
2006-08-08 20:10:43 · answer #3 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww i really feel sorry for you, thats about the lowest .. it will hurt for a long time, I'd say they won't talk to you cause they would feel so god dammed guitly and so theys should!! After a while you will probably feel really relieved that they didn't talk to you, it will make things easier for YOU in the longrun. Why don't you find some new friends, start hanging out with some you havn't seen in a while, your lifes not over yet, and theres plenty of more fun for you out there, and plenty more new best friends and new boyfriends. :) Put this down as one of lifes learning experiences , and be more aware of who your friends and bf's really are, and be more choosy.
2006-08-08 20:12:31 · answer #4 · answered by springo88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to deal with reality and move on. Stop all of this!!! They are not your friends......that is obvious. You need to grow up and act mature. This is how it is in life......one disappoinment after another. If you cannot afford counseling then go get your some self-help books and start reading. Look at yourself in the mirror and take a good look and make some positive changes. Take from this experience and make your life better. Or, sit in your house and feel sorry for yourself! The choice is yours, sweetie!
2006-08-08 20:10:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called living and learning. You had a scumbag for a boyfriend who just wants to have fun but doesn't give a hoot for the girls he uses. He will do the same to your girlfriend and she will be asking the same question. Unfortunately, your girlfriend knew she was doing YOUR boyfriend so she is no friend either. Let it go and she how time works it out.
2006-08-08 20:10:32 · answer #6 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to be happy for them. I use this advice alot but I think it is very important- - - take this time to work on you. Develop your skills and hobbies. Do things by yourself that you like. Realize that you are a wonderful, whole person and that having friends is just a benefit, it is not required to be happy.
2006-08-08 20:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you enjoyed your time with them, you can enjoy your time with anyone. you are the one who made it fun for you.
Why would you miss someone or even want to be with someone that did not really want to be with you.
move on and hang with folks that want to be with you.
also your life has not been put up side down.
People in Lebanon or Iraq have their lives up side down.
your life is fabulous.
2006-08-08 20:14:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn to what makes you happy. when i went threw hard times i turned to music and poetry. it helped me express my pain in a deeper way that was healing. just find what does that to you. oh and next time surround yourself with people who care about you enough not to hurt you.
2006-08-08 20:14:18 · answer #9 · answered by *Debster* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. Go out and meet some new people.
2006-08-08 20:10:52 · answer #10 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋