I would appear to be having a problem w/ a boy I know! Can you help...its getting a little out of control!?

Question

Okay this boy I have know since 7th grade and we are about to start the same H.S. together but he thinks that since I know him and I am 1 of the only ppl who haven't told him that he is the most annoying ppl in the world... we are supposed to be together! So now he is leaving me a bunch of messages calling me 20 times a day, and emailing me all the time...it was flatering at first but noe it is just out of comtrol! School starts next week and I will have to see him What do I say...He Told me that he is going to marry me when we get out off college...I don't wanna hurt his feelings!!! How do I set him straight that I don't like him!?!

Answer 1

Unfortunately there's no real easy way. You can't say much of anything without him feeling hurt. All you can do is let hin kwow you appreciate his friendship very much but you don't share the same feelings as him. You can also tell you like having him as a friend and anything else might mess up your friendship or complicate things.

Answer 2

be up front let him know that his constant calls and messages are a nuisance and that he doesn't have to be latched to you hs is a place to meet new ppl and redefine himself and if that doesn't work tell him like everyone else has plain and simple he's annoying

Answer 3

doesn't your cell phone have an ignore button. this guy is border line stalking.

Answer 4

Tell him you don't like him that way and if he keeps acting like that, you'll like him even less.

Answer 5

jus telll....if u dont hell never stop. Dont be mean jus be gentle wen u tell him

Answer 6

ignore him at all cost is a start