My parents always blamed me for everything and never blamed any of my siblings. I was always in their black books. I never had friends because i was always afraid of being rejected.
Now I'm depressed and my therapist thinks it because of how I was treated as a child.
All I want to know is why me? Why not one of my siblings or someone else, why did it have to be me?
2006-08-08 12:24:19 · 7 answers · asked by prizzma 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe you were just there at the wrong time. Did your parents pick u out in front of everyone at the dinnertable? Or was it when u were alone in your room? I know it's not an excuse, but some parents just do that.
Try to move forward, and don't look back. I know it hurts. Why don't u just ask them why they did this to you? Maybe they didn't know they were doing it in the first place.
2006-08-08 12:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be surprised if you are the oldest. As a parent of two teenage boys my oldest always feels as if I blame everything on him. I don't feel that I do. As the oldest I expect him to act more mature. I expect him to understand that if he wants to be treated with respect he needs to show me that he can respect his younger brother. In the real world (not MTV's version) every action has a consequence. If you choose the wrong action, because you don't care or you made the wrong choice, we as parent are obligated to tell you. You might not like it, but that's life. It ain't easy. The ones that make the most of it are the ones that don't dwell on every little thing that doesn't go right or they don't understand.
I'm sure your parents are just trying to raise you to be viable member of society. If they didn't care then you'd have a reason to ask "Why?"
Good Luck!!!
2006-08-08 19:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by Ricardo C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey don't waste your time thinking about what people feel. Get a life by looking forward. You have a whole life in front of you and don't let anything hold you back. Quit blaming yourself. If you are young finish school and get a college education and leave the past behind. Because five to ten hears from now you will look back and say- i ain't depressed!
2006-08-08 19:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by msraylanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we all feel this way from time to time. Life seems to deal us a lot of bad hands. We've just got to be resilient, pick up the pieces, and go on from there. Better days lie ahead, at least we all hope so.
2006-08-08 19:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by oceansoflight777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because life isn't always fair. You need to stop trying to figure out why because you'll probably never get a satisfactory answer. You need to focus on moving forwards.
2006-08-08 19:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SWEETIE ONLY THEY KNOW TRY ASKING THEM IF YOUR NOW AN ADULT DONT LOOK BACKON ALL THE SADNESS YOUMAYHAVE HAD AS A CHILD LOOK FORWARD TO THE FUTURE WHERE ALL GOOD THINGS WILL COME FOR YOU
2006-08-08 19:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur parents hate you....dont b surprised..lit happens
2006-08-08 19:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by Voncriss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋