If a man treats a woman like a queen and tells her friends about things he does for her and their family, there's a good chance that those women are saying, yea he still like the rest of them. It's as if they don't believe that a man can be faithful and truly in love. Do you think that a woman really knows her man, as far as intuition goes.
2006-08-08 12:21:58 · 18 answers · asked by gamequeen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
as from a man point of view I don't think we as men should be bunched together as such .>I been with my Queen for 20+yrs and we never once took each other for granted we do believe we are soul mate and though we are up there in yrs we still never go to bed mad or never forget to tell each other we love each other on a daily bases we are not perfect we just love and respect each other both families are different but like all things in this world we cope a bear it .. habit respect is the real answer
2006-08-08 12:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by rev frank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women and men percieve things differently. If he buys her gifts all the time, she may feel like a whore or that he is trying to buy her affection. She thinks he loves her when she comes home and he tells her to relax while he gets dinner together and cleans the kitchen.
Some women have been repeatedly disappointed by men because they think that men think just like women. Their psychological skin is burnt, and it is easier to overgeneralize and say "all men suck" than to risk rejection or future disappointment.
It is acquired pessimism.
They need to learn from their mistake (thinking all guys think just like they do) and move on.
Yes, some women really know their man, if they listen to and turst their intuition without bias.
Paranoia is an extreme bias to have, and it can affect the actual outcome.
You sound like yoy're worried about changing opinions about you as damage control for a previous mistake, or you are desperately seeking her freinds' approval. DO you trust her? Does she trust you? If she does, her friends cannot create doubt for her. Only you can do that....
Maybe her friends are jealous of you. Kill them with kindness. They will feel guilty for talking bad about you. Act like you think they have only the best intentions. If they get snotty, say "I know you meant that in the nicest and sweetest possible way".
You are a good man, right? You never act spitefully, and you show the utmost respect and empathy, right? What do you have to worry about?
2006-08-08 19:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, women don't know their men. That's why they're always SHOCKED when the men do something stupid and why there is so much divorce of couples that never should have gotten married to begin with.
Men at least resist marriage and put up a good struggle. Women will run into a bad marriage like the police are chasing her.
2006-08-08 19:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally the woman who believe men are dogs have been treated poorly. Sadly they think that all men are, so they accept the dogs and look no further only to be bitten yet again. Its a self fulfilling prophecy. The guys who aren't dogs won't spend time on a woman who projects that attitude either.
2006-08-08 19:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely, positively adore Mr. Chivalry & wish more men were like him!!!
But I have to be honest - you can think you know a man & then one day he will go & do something you never expected. A lot of times your intuition will be on target, but those times when it comes at you out of the blue like that, wow, you don't know that man at all . . .
A year ago, if anyone had said my ex would abduct our children & keep them from me, telling me I would never see them again, I would have laughed & said, no - he wouldn't do that. Surprise! I learned the hard way to Never Say Never . . .
2006-08-09 14:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've said it many a times and that was because I was Rejected or Dumped for someone else. You go through so much emotions at the time that even if you had a good male friend around, he was considered a Dog as well!!! It shouldn't be that way, but that's the way the cookie crumbles sometimes.
2006-08-08 19:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by Ruth R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, noone can know this for sure.. because of so many other things today in our world that may turn your head once or twice. and to say. and to answer the question women believe their men are faithful or will be? time will only tell this.. because love is an inward feeling not outward appearance.
2006-08-08 19:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by deszeria44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people no matter what wont ever trust agian, they put up that sign saying i dont trust you no matter what, cause they have been burned so many time that they are not willing to go threw it again so they push people away with whatever it takes, but ya know there are other women out there that are not like that you can go after them and have a better chance i am sure.
2006-08-08 19:30:00 · answer #8 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women don't know men all that well. Men don't know women at all too well either. And also, one jerk of a man usually ruins it for the whole male population.
2006-08-08 19:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they think this way because some man scarred them for life. now they have to find one of the good men themselves... and even then, its very likely that they will always hold what the jerk did to them against their new and faithful man. its a vicious cycle.
2006-08-08 19:28:29 · answer #10 · answered by Celery Stalk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋