im a virgin but my boyfriend isnt and i feel bad becuz he isnt gettin any from me but he says its ok is it ?

Answer 1

why wouldn't it be? i would be careful of him though. he probably thinks you can be easily coerced into sex.

Answer 2

Don't be in a rush. Take your time. It sounds to me like he cares a lot about you and you should be thankful. A lot of guys would be trying to take advantage of your guilt and get you into bed. What you have to realize is that sex isn't the most important thing about a relationship. Love and respect is. Over time you will discover that while sex is good, sex alone can't sustain a happy and long lasting relationship. For a relationship to stand the test of time it takes plenty of patience, understanding and compassion. All things that come with love and respect. Good luck.

Answer 3

Boyfriends will come and go, but you virginity can only be offered once. Wouldn't it be wonderful to offer it to the man who will be your husband, He will hold his head high in the market place and brag.

He will call you what few women are ever called. To every young man , it's no big deal, while their trying to help you lose it and move onto the next one.

Guys brag about how many virgins they've had.

Answer 4

Don't worry about him "not getting any". If he's cool about, then let it be. Sex, quite frankly, isn't all that important. If it's too soon you could end up screweing up your relationship anyway. Move at your own pace, don't be pressured into doing something you're not ready for, or might regret later.
My 14 year old daughter got pregnant by some "experienced" guy becuse she felt pressured into. Afraid he might leave her.... whatever. Forget about it. If you like the guy, concentrate on the relationship. It actually has little to do with sex, seriously.

Answer 5

Oh Dearest,
Sex is far too precious to "use" it. If he loves you he will wait. Save it for marriage! Think about it this way, You have sex, with or without penetration, oral, whatever... What if he leaves you after that? Then you have given part of yourself away. Your heart. Ok so then you meet this incredible guy that you want to spend the rest of your life with, you marry. Now think to your honeymoon. When you start that night, you want it to be just the two of you right? Those memories are going to be with you! Protect your heart darling, save that part of you for your husband.


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Answer 6

You have to go off of what your boyfriend says, maybe he respects you enough not to pressure you. And that is good. I would keep him around because he sounds like he is a decent guy. ANd there are other ways to have fun you know. Just trust him if he says that he doesn't care then don't worry.

Answer 7

It is most defiantly OK.
Honey, take pride in your self respect.
He obviously does.
But should he change his mind and suddenly put pressure on you to do otherwise, then run.
He'll dump you in the end for someone else and slander you all over school.

Answer 8

Who are you trying to fool? Why does this guy need to have sex from you? If he is saying okay, why are you still asking about it? Keep your britches up and go take a cold shower. Based on your question you are nowhere ready to have sex with anyone.

Answer 9

I'm sure he is saying what he believes. If you want to stay a virgin, there are other methods of relieving any sexual tension, he may have. Masturbation, or Oral, would satisfy his urges.
And you would still stay a virgin, if that is your wish.

Answer 10

Of course it's okay being a virgin is something to be cherished don't feel guilty about it and if he wasn't okay with it then you should consider someoe who is

Answer 11

if he says it is ok, then it is, you shouldnt do anything untill you are completely ready and comfortable with doing so, so just let your insecurities about whether it is ok or not go because if a person respects you as a person, then they will value and respect your decision to wait....