Why is it , that men tend to pressure girls into having SEX with them?? Do they want it that badly.. or is it because there friends are pressuring them to do it with a girl.. and why is it that being a virgin a bad thing?
2006-08-08 12:07:19 · 8 answers · asked by HaHa Thats Funny!!! 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
All of the above. They want to know what it feels like, they know what it feels like and want it again, they are keeping score of how many girls they sleep with, etc. And they don't seem to ever stop pressuring either. So, as a girl you can either put out all the time, not put out ever, or just ignore the pressure and tell them to wait until YOU'RE ready.
2006-08-08 12:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by fizzygod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are...well, men. They always want sex, no matter how much they have had. Teenage boys are particularly bad, because there is all the pressure on them to "be a man", they have raging hormones, and they're just curious. Just know that the majority of them do more talking than doing, as do many girls, so even though it seems like everyone's having sex, most of them are not. My advice is to stay a virgin until you are ready. If you are even a little unsure, then wait. Wait until you really understand all the possible results of sex (physical and emotional). And if the guy keeps pressuring you, you can always send a father, uncle, brother, or good friend to straighten things out. Scaring them a little never hurt :)
2006-08-08 12:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by Sara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a virgin is not a bad thing, it is a very respectable thing actually. If you are in high school kids may laugh about it, but you don't need to rush into sex until you truly feel ready. Guys probably try and pressure girls into sex just so they don't have to be virgins themselves. At my old high school there was a "how many freshman can you have sex with" competition going for the seniors! how sick is that?!? Don't fall for one of those guys.... Anyway. Good luck, and stay a virgin until you feel ready to change that.
2006-08-08 12:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Taryn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"boy's" tend to be pressured by other "boy's" into having sex.... it's that whole who can do more or who is the "pimp" .... and there is nothing wrong with being a Virgin! NOTHING. It's probably the most honorable thing a girl can hang onto!!!!! don't let some boy force you into doing something that you are not ready for and if they feel as though they need it to stay with you ..then say BYE BYE .. there are plenty of other MEN out there that will respect your wishes.
2006-08-08 12:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the things you said. Peer pressure, wanting to seem cool to impress their friends, want to know what it's like, etc. there is nothing wrong with being a virgin, but some people in our modern culture say it's so great to do it and it's so important and "you're not cool unless you do it"...etc. it's all rubbish.
2006-08-08 13:07:03 · answer #5 · answered by Tangy & Cherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IDK. But I agree w/ every1. All most of them think about sex sex sex. But just becuz they're tryin 2 pressure u, u should never do sumthin u dont want 2, and bein a virgin is NOT a bad thing. Some ppl just chose to give it away b4 others. I think its very special and shouldnt b given 2 just ne1
2006-08-08 13:21:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It never stops. Even afterf you've been married for 20 years the men still beg for it. I guess it's just their never ending hormones.
2006-08-08 12:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine that if you are a virgin that means that you never had sex and that something is wrong with you
2006-08-08 12:15:56 · answer #8 · answered by juanita2_2000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋