Why are guys so confusing?

Question

ok, so i have this guy friend who i really like, and sometimes it seems like he likes me too,whats really annoying is the fact that he always tells me how much he trusts me,and whenever he likes another girl he always tells me. which always makes me sad,is it good or bad that he trusts me so much,that he would even tell me he feels like he cans tell me anything?

Answer 1

Wow girl I feel your pain, been in a very similar situation myself. Well I think it is a good thing that he trusts you so much. Trust and friendship are the foundations of a lasting relationship. The best loves and relationships usually start out as friends, so its good that you two are close and he trusts you. Yeah it does suck when the guy you like talks about all the girls he likes, and all you want is for him to be liking you. Maybe he does like you, but thinks you think of him as just friends so he finds other girls? If you feel strongly about it, you should talk to him. Tell him how you feel. Yeah, things could not go so well and your friendship may end up being a bit different, but isn't the risk worth what you may gain? Chances are, you both like each other, but nothing will ever happen if one of you doesn't get up the courage to say something. So try and find some courage and talk to him. Who knows, maybe everything will turn out perfectly! Good luck!

Answer 2

I think that your mis-terpreting what he's saying to you. I think that he just sees you as a best friend and that's why he tells you everything and gives you a lot of trust. Or he just flurts with you from time to time but nothing more. I think that in the near future you both can try being girlfriend or boyfriend, remember that a good relationship starts with a good friendship, so you on to a good start. Again I think he might like you, but he mainly sees you as a best friend for now.

Answer 3

Ask Him, not us. Tell him how you feel and ask him whats on his mind. Don't try to guess through life. Take charge. Even if he feels he only wants to be your friend ,the sooner you know the better. As a guy I can tell you where easily confussed, maybe he likes you but feels your out of his league. Just go for it. Good luck , William

Answer 4

Because men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. Men and women are wired differently. It doesn't mean that can't understand one another, but it does mean it takes a lot of extra effort to want to understand one another. Communication is one of the most important things in a healthy relationship.

Answer 5

You have to make a point for him to notice that you like him. Believe me, guys are ignorant. I know this from personal experience. Don't do anything to out of the blue, but do somethign to get him to actually get the idea that you lke him. maybe even tell him, but hoenstly, guys will never know that you like them unless you try and tell them

Answer 6

As a guy I think you have an edge over other girls because he trusts you and can tell you anything.

Answer 7

You must be more like a sister or a friend to him because if he "liked" you, he would not tell you for fear of hurting you and/or getting caught. Try greeting him at the door naked or, at the most, in only your underwear. That'll wake him up.

Answer 8

It means he probably only likes you as a friend. But why don't you ask him out? You might get lucky, and if not, he will understand. If he doesn't, then he isn't a true friend anyway.

Answer 9

they seem so confusing because they are of the opposite sex, but ask another guy friend to give you the heads up on dudes. Hopefully, he will.

Answer 10

if ur sure he likes you then hes probably just trying to make you jealous by saying he likes another girl so that you will like him more (thats what happened with me) otherwise..he probably doesnt like you as more than a friend.