I want to be SUPREMELY "CLEAN" for my hubby. What are the most important things to a guy. Fresh breath? shaved ta-ta?? I wanna know what I can do to make sure i'm extra extra satisfying. I've been pregnant and he said sex was "unpleasant", so Im trying to reform..lol...so, guys, what are some things that a girl should do for you to think she's fresh and "clean"?
2006-08-08 11:25:04 · 31 answers · asked by chicwitpurpose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That's kind of a rude thing for your husband to say . . . but at least he is talking. See if you can build your communication so that he is able to communicate what he likes, and also be receptive to your needs.
2006-08-08 11:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are almost reducing the act to a surgical operation with a disinfected room, clean covers,clean dresses,bathing the patient ias if it is a major surgery , dim lights etc.etc. Are you by any chance a nurse or a doctor. The mention in your question of your bf's opinion about the sex act as unpleasant(I almost said unhealthy) bolsters this suspicion. You said you had been pregnant suggesting that you have earlier sex experience. Did you feel the need for such elaborate preparations to enjoy it?
Let the act be spontanous. A date is not an auspicious time as there is always the tension of its ultimate denoument. Make it spontaneous. May be in your office ante-room or your kitchen(when perhaps you wouild have your apron on and you may even be a bit soiled with the kitchen operations). Such spontaneity adds a new dimension to the act. So don't worry with all the preliminaries.
2006-08-08 18:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by Prabhakar G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you asked... for me, cleanliness is the #1 thing in that area. I can overlook a lot, except poor hygiene...that's a dealbreaker for me. As far as the "ta-ta"...not necessarily shaven, but at least trimmed- and that fresh out of the shower softness and scent from top to bottom is always good. Of course taking a shower together can be a turn on also. It's great foreplay, plus that way you are both squeaky clean and good to go.
2006-08-08 18:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by answerman63 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fresh Breath, Well groomed hair that smells good, a light perfume, high heels, sexy lingerie, shaved legs, soft skin, shaved armpits with deodarant, and a well groomed coochie...hat will work everytime but you need to do the rest be the agressor get on top or whatever.
2006-08-08 18:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by George T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't shave your 'ta-ta' wax it. if you shave it will grow twice as much. i am pregnant at the moment and my husband loves it. it really depends on the guy. some men gets aroused with our body change and some men won't. if your hubby isn't satisfied with you then you should go ask him about it. if you are working too hard to satisfy him, how are you satisfying yourself?
2006-08-08 22:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by ooh la la 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shaved tata is a good start but don't stop there. hit the hole behind it, the armpits, the upper lip., whiten those choppers too. trim and clean the nails (upper & lower), try a strawberry flavored douch too. and just in case he gets really rambunctious, an enema would be nice too (at least 30 minutes before anal sex) unless you wanna lat down plastic sheets first.
2006-08-08 18:33:34 · answer #6 · answered by pete cochino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fresh breath would be the most inportant thing to me. There have a many times I have tried to kiss my wife and was totally turned off because of her bad breath.
2006-08-08 18:30:00 · answer #7 · answered by pmdan00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A shaved ta ta as you put is a great way to start.
2006-08-08 18:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by knmardix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shaved & Clean tata...
Your tata has to be fresh, in order to get some attention below the belt???
2006-08-08 18:35:25 · answer #9 · answered by missionman1914 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you have to find out from him what part he feels is unpleasant then you need to fix that then fix the other things sound like he is just trying to find a way to get out of having sex or trying to upset you good luck
2006-08-08 18:30:47 · answer #10 · answered by robert899295 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋