one night my man said he had to leave to go to spain, just out of the blue, my mate was there with me, he said he needed money, as he had non, after all the tears and asking why? I gave in he took my money and went, my mate whom I trusted told me to come out with her and her man to cheer me up, we all had a few drinks at my place, next day babys dad came over told me why he needed the money, i understood, then this same girl told him that id been raped and left condoms planted everywhere in my house like Id been spiked and raped, when I id not, on the same night I drank with her i had to go home early, gave her the keys and her and her man stayed in my yard. I trusted her she then returned the keys to me the next evening (she was jeliose of my marrige, and was a druggy found this out later) since that day I have had all types of accusations thrown at me, he is out of control I called the police on him bare times people have been knoking on my door and running away, im getting.......
2006-08-08 11:24:36 · 8 answers · asked by sweetlikehoney_73 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
on my hous ephone and men are calling me, im fed up of justifing my innocence, its all doing my head in, he even threatens to kill him self over all this rubbish, i have never cheated on him and never will. recently my gold worth $1200 got stolen, I think this cow got my keys duplicated the night I left them with her, ive changed locks since, I told the police but there is no evidence that it is her, this is all such a mess, my husband has become so nasty and hurtfull he aint an angel either and has hurt me in the past (not violence) its all such a mess, when I try and leave him he is at my door , ive done the restraining order stuff, but at the same time am sceared he will hurt my old folks ( he does not live with me) please help me thankyou
2006-08-08 11:29:10 · update #1
sounds terible only the lord Jesus Christ can help you and I will pray for you right now,know this that peole will fail you and It sounds like your husband set you up with these people ,It was not an acident at all.I will pray for you and you should Invite the Lord Jesus Christ Into your life
2006-08-08 11:33:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Youre right,youve gotten into quite a mess. Time has come to quit playing games with this guy. A restraining order is only good if youre going to use it. Once this guy has hurt you, you need to file charges against him and again if necessary. Any guy who physically or mentally abuses a woman needs to be behind bars and this guy is no exception. You need to change your living arrangement too. Youre not in a good situation, and if you think that things will,youre lying to yourself. This guy is abusing you thru his childish games and you need to get out before something serious happens to you or your family. File a restraining order on their behalf too and get him locked up if he continues. This guy is lying his eye teeth out to you and you put up with him. Shame on you. Now stop playing or this whole thing is really going to get out of hand. Good luck
2006-08-08 11:41:57 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all...get rid of that friend NOW!, second, if your husband does not trust you, you do not need him...marriage is founded on trust on each other. Talk to him away from friends and be honest with him...ask him to be calm before you talk though.
Do you want him? if not don't even bother...take the opportunity to get rid of him.
2006-08-08 11:31:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need some help. Maybe you should move and get away from him. He doesn't sound very stable. You must watch who you trust. Stay as far away from your ex friend as you can. I do wish you luck.
2006-08-08 11:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a bad dream if your worried about your folks have them get a restraing order to i`d move to a new place and or change the phone number
2006-08-08 11:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by steamroller98439 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you putting up with it?? LEAVE this all behind you and find someone that wont be a jerk to you. If your husband is a jerk and your friend is jealous of your marriage then i say its time to make a some new friends. Please leave all this nonsense behind for your safety and sanity.
2006-08-08 11:33:06 · answer #6 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW GIRL I HOPE YOU GOT RID OF THE NO GOOD FRIEND YOU AND HUBBY NEED A BREAK FOR REAL TOTHINK IF MARRIAGE IS REALLY A GOOD THING FOR THE BOTH OF YOU SEEMSLIKE THE TRUST IS GONE AND ITS GOING TO BE SOMETIME BEFORE YOU GET IT BACK JUST TAKE A BREAK FROM HIM AND SEE WHERE YOUR HEART REALLY IS
2006-08-08 11:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the cops aren't doing anything about him? call the cops when he comes over they can throw him in jail for harassment because you don't want him there
2006-08-08 11:37:43 · answer #8 · answered by Finney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋