how do you know if enough sperm is getting inside if when your done having sex, there is alot of sperm on you when you wipe your self, i mean some times it is alot, so how do you know if enough is getting in to get you pregnant? is it always like this, i mean im 25 and married and ever since my husband and i decided to concieve it is my first time having sex without a condom so i never new what it was like to have the semen come inside you and if this is normal or not, i have always been realy responsible, and my husband resepects that to, instead of taking birth controll wich has so many bad side effects. any real answers would be nice, please no mean answers, im not writing to hear people make mean comments. thank you
2006-08-08 11:07:55 · 14 answers · asked by Blonds Rock 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thank you, all of you guys are realy helping me out, is there anyway you can link me to a site that cells ovulation tests so that i can see what kinds are out there and if they are cheaper on the net? you guys are great thanks alot!
2006-08-08 11:39:07 · update #1
If your trying to conceive - you only need one sperm in the right spot to make that happen
Try laying on your back and hugging your legs after sex. This might help "tip" you in the right direction and aid in the sperm swimming. Men actually only create about 2 tablespoons worth of c u m. Women can make up to a cup of fluids. So it's hard to tell who is who down there. The best bet is to just make sure it all stays in. Also - you might try masterbating coliterally after sex to stimulate an intense orgasm and get your uterus to suck some of the sperm in the right direction.
Good luck!
2006-08-08 11:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by hmmmmmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't be on you, it should be IN you, although some of it may drain out.
If you've been trying for several months, like six, then see a doctor for a sperm count.
Also, take an ovulation test - they're over the counter at the pharmacy, that will increase your chances.
In any case - just have fun! It is sex after all!
2006-08-08 18:13:46 · answer #2 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he ejaculates inside you then that should be enough thats how the body works, all you need to know is that sperm swims upward so if he cums inside you the sperm will know what to do, oh and i heard that a girl can only get pregnant once a month or something do some research
2006-08-08 18:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by jcal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't take much to get you pregnant - it just has to get to the right place at the right time (when you're ovulating). The amount doesn't have as much to do with it. If you're trying to conceive, you may want to lay on your back afterwards and put your knees up towards your chest to hold it in a bit longer. This is an 'old wives tale', but it can work.
Good luck to you :)
2006-08-08 18:15:42 · answer #4 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's very normal, honey, happens all the time when you have sex like that (ever heard of the "wet spot"? That's what it is....semen leaking back out of the woman when they're lying there "afterwards"). It's nothing to worry about and I'm sure you'll get pregnant just fine. IOW, if you don't get pregnant, it won't be just because some of it leaked back out, you know?
BTW...good luck!! :)
2006-08-08 18:17:45 · answer #5 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't matter how much semen actually stays inside of you because most people get pregnant from pre-ejaculation. Like the pre-kum before the guy actually even climaxes. Good-Luck though! It'll happen when the time's right.
2006-08-08 18:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hundreds of sperm are released upon ejaculation. All are fighting an uphill battle for the win. The win to be the first to implant itself in your uterus. All it really takes is 1. Answer: very little. And; yes it is normal what you have experienced.
2006-08-08 18:17:07 · answer #7 · answered by mary c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only takes one sperm...the seamen volume has nothing to do with the quantity of sperm it contains...if you are trying to get pregnant and can't, see a Dr. to check your fertility and your husband's too.
2006-08-08 18:14:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure if any is inside of you. that it is possible for you to get pregnant. Just make sure that you guys are doing it when you are most fertile.. 10 days after your period is the perfect time...
2006-08-08 18:13:05 · answer #9 · answered by shannon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no real amount that can get you pregnant. All it takes is a little and sometimes not even that. Precum can get you pregnant as well.
2006-08-08 18:12:58 · answer #10 · answered by R. J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋