I heard a comparison that it is like putting a hand into a boot? Is this true? Do women really lose their desire?
2006-08-08 11:07:54 · 8 answers · asked by cityexplorer 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
well I have four kids, each time I went a week - ten days before I was dying for sex...everytime I felt like I could but trust me wait at least 3 weeks or 6 like docs recommend... the orgasm gave me serious pain AFTER...serious and bleeding...and we were so careful...
1) episiotomy site you may always have some degree of sensitivity there...it's beed torn or cut...
2) after my fourth who was 10 lbs 3 oz...sex has never been the same...Ill admit it my husband has felt much smaller since then and I dont think he shrunk lol...to clarify women stretch differently, some bounce back and some get some stretch. All women may differ in their elasticity...also that elasticity diminishes as you get older...
3) I also remember orgasms made my milk also start squirting lol have fun!
2006-08-08 11:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by Julia M 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Wait the 6 or 7 weeks depending on the delivery u had. Go slow but it should be pleasure and a little lubricant helps something sweet and smells good. I had three children and they are all close in age. And yes it hurts but no complaints here. Love is wonderful with the right partner.
2006-08-08 18:15:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had four kids and no problems as of then or now, so just relax and don't force yourself into labor chill you are like a rubberband you will see it will be just as tight as b4 if you do your holding your pee exercises so get started but not till you have the baby don't want to make things tight right now loosen up and have a good labor and delivery.
2006-08-08 18:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by krisforre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends.
Right after, women actually have a desire to have more sex but that is hormonal.
Sex should return back to normal.
Good luck!!!
2006-08-08 18:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by slickkittykattwhopurs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some do; some don't. The woman has to have time to heal, but after 3 children, my wife feels as good as she did before children.
2006-08-08 18:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by RobsVision 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no and after having 4 kids i should know...there will b some soreness and some pain having sex after having a baby
2006-08-08 18:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by dottie c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are healed enough and when baby lets you... its nice. But take your time and ease into it.
2006-08-08 18:38:19 · answer #7 · answered by Brittainy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT FEELS GOOD VERY GOOD. good luck on that
2006-08-08 18:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋