I have a serious problem. Whenever I have sex with a guy and have an orgasm I don't want them to touch me at all regardless if they had an orgasm too or not. I try but I can't. Can someone please ask me if it's a problem and how I can get over it? Thank you very much.
2006-08-08 10:47:52 · 13 answers · asked by Sexxy Lynn 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It's a little strange, but there are plenty of things that you can do to him without him touching you. Use your imagination. And maybe you'll get over it at some point. Lots of girls are sensitive after orgasm.
2006-08-08 10:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to evaluate what causes you feel like you don't want them to touch you. Is it cause of feeling too intense or too sensitive? Is it a guilt issue or something to do with thinking you are done and there fore he should be done also? I do think your behavior is somewhat selfish, but there is probably a reason within your mind that makes you behave that way. I think if you find out what that is you may be able to solve the problem, if you even think it is a problem.
2006-08-08 17:54:01 · answer #2 · answered by bignellmedic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It something you have to work out.
Your not selfish if your drive falls to zero, you can't control that...Maybe next time before reaching orgasm, switch things around and play with him a bit till he reaches or stop before he reaches and get at it so both will reach at the same time.
Good luck!!!
2006-08-08 18:27:54 · answer #3 · answered by slickkittykattwhopurs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if this will help you, but if I had a clitoris orgasm I simply can't have sex any more (I completely lose desire), but if I had vaginal, I can wait for him. Maybe that's the reason.
2006-08-08 17:57:44 · answer #4 · answered by cityexplorer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as long as you were cool with me masterbaiting in front of you after you had an orgasim, it would be all good. I think it is a huge turn on to have a girl watch me jacking off after sex if I didnt get off anyway.
2006-08-08 17:54:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck finding someone that will satisfy you in bed, that or someone that will put up with you.
It sounds like something that you can't control which isn't so selfish, however, you should at least give em a lil something to release. otherwise you won't keeping him around for too long
2006-08-08 17:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that is strange every girl that I have been with always wanted to "cuddle" Maybe you should ask yourself is there a specific reason why I don't wanna be touched?
2006-08-08 17:55:09 · answer #7 · answered by J-Money 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I know what you mean. After I get mine I just want to roll over and re-cooperate. Just tell him you need a few minutes to get back to normal.
2006-08-08 17:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is selfish. Make sure they get theirs first maybe ??
2006-08-08 17:57:03 · answer #9 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him has his orgasm first then u have it..
2006-08-08 17:58:44 · answer #10 · answered by meshan_heek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋